No, the wound that bled so much was a puncture wound on my right thumb. It bled like crazy, but doesn't look like much of a wound at all and didn't require stitches. I pulled away from him when he was pulling me through the window.
he locked me out and i was trying to get in. So he threw a full length mirror through it and then grabbed my wrists and was pulling on me. I thought my face was going to go in.
I understand and agree what you're saying about taking personal responsibility for your one's own actions within the relationship that were unproductive or harmful to that relationship.
From my perspective, no person deserves to suffer physical harm or abuse. To me, there's nothing that justifies that behavior. Well, except self-defense.
I used to come unglued and beat down any guy that put their hands on any woman in my life.
But I've realized more and more that alot of times the woman does do things to antagonize the man I.E push his buttons stuff like that(my mother is included in this bunch).
Not that I'm saying HR did anything to provoke this...I like everybody else on EF dont knot shit about what really happened.