I broke up with bf/ I'm back

[H_T_]

i'd give him a second chance. just make him promise not to do it again.

 

[hotzie]

i'd give him a second chance. just make him promise not to do it again.

youre such a dick.

 

[H_T_]

where's MuscleMom? and good timing with the drama thread. kudos to the EF braintrust....

 

[gjohnson5]

I wouldn't

A man who has such a large character flaw to hit a woman in anger will not unlearn such behavior. It will just happen again

i'd give him a second chance. just make him promise not to do it again.

 

[youngguns]

youre such a dick.

+1

 

[Smurfy]

I'm sure my initial reaction would be much more emotional, but I would also know more of the story and eventually I would want the best for my sister/mother, which would require them taking personal responsiboility and learning from the situation so it never happens again.

Also, if you recall, there have been other people here on EF who have told similar stories and we have found out later that they were either lies or were only a portion of the real story.

I understand and agree what you're saying about taking personal responsibility for your one's own actions within the relationship that were unproductive or harmful to that relationship.
From my perspective, no person deserves to suffer physical harm or abuse. To me, there's nothing that justifies that behavior. Well, except self-defense.

 

[stilleto]

nomatter what anyone feels- if she was flirty or provocative, or what... he doesn't have the right to hurt her, and he obviously did.

the relationship may have spiraled down due to HR, or not, who knows.
obviously things weren't 100% perfect already, but its too bad they have to end like this.

 

[H_T_]

I wouldn't

A man who has such a large character flaw to hit a woman in anger will not unlearn such behavior. It will just happen again

how did she not spot this before? they were engaged, i do believe.

 

[KillahBee]

I understand and agree what you're saying about taking personal responsibility for your one's own actions within the relationship that were unproductive or harmful to that relationship.

awesome.

 

[KillahBee]

nomatter what anyone feels- if she was flirty or provocative, or what... he doesn't have the right to hurt her, and he obviously did.

the relationship may have spiraled down due to HR, or not, who knows.
obviously things weren't 100% perfect already, but its too bad they have to end like this.

care to bet your life on that?