I broke up with bf/ I'm back

[healother]

he's in jail now? thats good.
i hope you arent going to give this guy another chance, are you?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Yeah, he blames 100% of this on me. He said that I am a cancer in the family that he was going to remove. Nevermind the fact that I found out that he has a history of domestic battery and abusing his kids! I guess they were all asking for it too. He even played the martyr the other day, and moaned about how the cops and CPS were ruining his life for years to come,now.

I've told you before how happy I am for you that things have turned around for you. You deserve the world. =-)

Thank you and so shall it be for you when you get into your own head and realize that this isnt a poor reflection on YOU.

My ex STILL screams at my kids, "Your mother, that fucking whore cunt who destroyed this family...." Yea ok... I MADE him beat me up.

Men like this are broken beyond repair. Prosecute to the fullest extent of the law and NEVER back down!!! I foolishly dropped a Final Order of Protection back in the day on the advice of MY OWN ATTORNEY!!! He said, that in order to settle the divorce I should drop it as "a sign of good faith"... me and my kids were fucked from that moment on. I will live with regret of that moment for the rest of my natural life....

Get yourself together dear. Get yourself together and fix your head and your heart. Seek out counseling and create yourself a wonderfull world filled with happiness and good things. When you fix yourself you will be amazed at what wonderful peeps will *magically* appear right before your eyes.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I realize that the thread could be used in evidence. However, I don't think I've said anything that is damaging to me. ???

No you havent. But mark my words, he will print all this shit out and try to cloud the issues. It just makes things a bit more complicated.

But you are an attorney yourself well-versed in family law so I dont think it will be so easy for him. You have NO IDEA how all the nonsense that was typed on elite wreaked havoc in my REAL world back in the day... all superfluous inconsequential bullshit, but it gave me stress on a daily basis. Peeps used to say, "Why then do you post up?" My answer? "Oh so I should be afraid now to post on the internet because of my ex and what he may or may not do?" It is NOT illegal and doesnt hurt anyone!" It was just more control.

Luckily as you do not share children he wont be able to dominate and control you that way. However, I do have firsthand knowledge of how much havoc a nasty black-hearted individual can wreak in the life of someone they want to destroy.

DONT BACK DOWN EVER.

 

[heatherrae]

Thank you and so shall it be for you when you get into your own head and realize that this isnt a poor reflection on YOU.

My ex STILL screams at my kids, "Your mother, that fucking whore cunt who destroyed this family...." Yea ok... I MADE him beat me up.

Men like this are broken beyond repair. Prosecute to the fullest extent of the law and NEVER back down!!! I foolishly dropped a Final Order of Protection back in the day on the advice of MY OWN ATTORNEY!!! He said, that in order to settle the divorce I should drop it as "a sign of good faith"... me and my kids were fucked from that moment on. I will live with regret of that moment for the rest of my natural life....

Get yourself together dear. Get yourself together and fix your head and your heart. Seek out counseling and create yourself a wonderfull world filled with happiness and good things. When you fix yourself you will be amazed at what wonderful peeps will *magically* appear right before your eyes.

Thanks =-) I am working on it. The thing that I think that I feared more than the horrible fights was losing my sense of humor and perspective on life. I'm back! I can't save him or his kids, so I will just have to save myself.

 

[gotmilk]

are you suing him for pain and suffering?

 

[reno240]

Thanks =-) I am working on it. The thing that I think that I feared more than the horrible fights was losing my sense of humor and perspective on life. I'm back! I can't save him or his kids, so I will just have to save myself.

OH!! - when I was with that crazy jealous woman - my friends, who had been friends my whole life - all hated me. I had become a bitter, jaded, mean, SOB... I was able to get back to who I was before. I am sure you will too.

 

[blueta2]

Get yourself together dear. Get yourself together and fix your head and your heart. Seek out counseling and create yourself a wonderfull world filled with happiness and good things. When you fix yourself you will be amazed at what wonderful peeps will *magically* appear right before your eyes.

The most sound pc of advice ever!
When I fixed me, all of a sudden I started to find wonderful people.

 

[Mavafanculo]

glad you're ok HR

 

[Smurfy]

get outta florida sister

 

[heatherrae]

Thanks everyone! I really appreciate everyone's well wishes very much. My big challenges now are deciding whether to go home to Kentucky, where I am licensed to practice law or staying here and getting a different job. I have to get back up on my feet financially. I gave away most all of my belongings when I came down here. It's sort of an intimidating time for me right now, but I will be okay. =-)