I am hurt! I have been cheated on...

[GUARDIAN]

Honestly, should I call the guy now that Ihave his phone number? If yes, what should I tell him? To back off or ask him what are his intentions?

But my fiancee would be pissed if I did...at least I find some closure.

tough one. i would hold off until u get finalized what your future is with her. i would definitely do it for closure if things do not work out.

 

[Nobledude]

tough one. i would hold off until u get finalized what your future is with her. i would definitely do it for closure if things do not work out.

I dont know...I was thinking if I will call him up and ask him honestly what are his intentions I may see if there is a plan brewing between those two..she said she didnt tell her that he loves her or wanna stay with her... a man to man conversation..

 

[silverstar1025]

I dont know...I was thinking if I will call him up and ask him honestly what are his intentions I may see if there is a plan brewing between those two..she said she didnt tell her that he loves her or wanna stay with her... a man to man conversation..

Do you really think he would be honest with you? I highly doubt he would say "yeah man we have been talking and we want to be together".

 

[GUARDIAN]

Do you really think he would be honest with you? I highly doubt he would say "yeah man we have been talking and we want to be together".

+1

 

[Nobledude]

Do you really think he would be honest with you? I highly doubt he would say "yeah man we have been talking and we want to be together".

why not? whats to hide...?

How funny is life...a while ago , my fiancee wanted another baby but I didnt...now after she saw hear beau she wouldnt want her IUD taken out!

I guess I was thinking if we will have another child she will be with me and forget about the other man...she is a wonderful mom, a hard working person and a very good looking girl!!

It is hard for me...I hope I wont resort to stupid things...I need all the help I can get...I couldnt go to bed at all today....we had a lousy sex today,,,it was the same since she had sex with the other man..

 

[silverstar1025]

why not? whats to hide...?

How funny is life...a while ago , my fiancee wanted another baby but I didnt...now after she saw hear beau she wouldnt want her IUD taken out!

I guess I was thinking if we will have another child she will be with me and forget about the other man...she is a wonderful mom, a hard working person and a very good looking girl!!

It is hard for me...I hope I wont resort to stupid things...I need all the help I can get...I couldnt go to bed at all today....we had a lousy sex today,,,it was the same since she had sex with the other man..

What do you mean by do stupid things?

 

[Nobledude]

What do you mean by do stupid things?

hurt someone or myself...

typing words cant express my huge pain.....they are emotionless...

 

[silverstar1025]

hurt someone or myself...

typing words cant express my huge pain.....they are emotionless...

Dude if you have these feelings then please talk to someone. Maybe counseling would help you guys. Would both of you be willing to do that?

Again, think about your child. Can you imagine how messed up your kid would grow to be if Daddy harmed himself or Mommy?

 

[rnch]

I was the one who ran her away...

WRONG!!! she CHOSE to cheat on u

 

[GUARDIAN]

hurt someone or myself...

typing words cant express my huge pain.....they are emotionless...

whoa stop right there bro. the pain is temporary. if u are having feelings like that u should not sit at home and keep thinking about it.