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i aint tha joker but you peeps suck......
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That's my motto, I never expect shit to be ok or go right so if they do I'm really happy, if not I already saw it coming
Uncool post BTW
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calveless wonder
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wow, i don't pay attention teh drama around here anymore. just catching up now
seems like joker is in the post traumatic victim mentality. It's not uncommon. I know i've been through it for a year or more of my life. I'm sure many of us have. Life falls apart,girl gone, job gone, start blaming others...use unhealthy addictions and escapes to avoid any form of pain or discomfort. (FYI joker, stop with the World of warcraft bullshit. You might as well be using heroine because it's serving the same purpose. And this is coming from someone who's a gamer.)
once you learn to free yourself of that mentality, you start doing real things with your life and moving forward. At the end of the day, you are accountable for what happens in your life in some way shape or form. Real "Men" Don't victimize themselves, they are accountable for their life and molding their life into what they want it to be. Being a man is not just about being testosterone filled, loud, territorial and jacked, it's about accepting responsibility for yourself and the things that happen in your life. No matter how many detours or setbacks, you can still attain most goals you set out to do with enough time, learning and effort.
again, i haven't kept with the drama and read maybe a few posts and just have an inkling of whats going on. So i don't know if this is justified or just the mob mentality at work. Truthfully? I feel a little bad for the guy. I'm sure he's brought it upon himself in some way as far as the backlash, but the guy's life is in shambles. The reality is his whole world and existence for x amount of years has come into question. Job, girl...things you invest a lot of time and hours to and all of a sudden they're gone. Self worth hits the toilet, etc.Now, was he dumb for making either of those choices? I'm willing to bet yes. MyWay has crazy written on her forehead. That's not to say he deserves a pity party either. You feel sad and grieve for awhile....and then you pick up the fuckin pieces and never repeat the same mistakes you made before.
Homeboy just needs to accept it,move on and create a new life. External things don't deny yourself existence. You define you. Life is a continuum. I'm not the same person i was this morning, and neither is anybody. I learned a bunch of shit that i didnt know before and had ideas i never had before...and tomorrow could be another day like that. Anyone who doesn't understand the concept of personal growth really is not living life...at all. they're existing, but not they're living. god, that must fuckin suck to live that way.
pussy comes and goes. so does love. so does money. so do friends. Times when you have a lot of it, and when you don't. just need to accept whatever the fuck is going on at the very moment and face it and ride with it. Whether it's the most ridiculous amazing time or the worst fuckin times, neither will last forever.
no matter what happens in life, at the end of the day you can always look in the mirror and say "what could i have done if anything, to make this situation better or not be in it?". Don't sulk about it like a 5 year old or get down on yourself for not doing it or realizing it. look at it analytically, digest it and make it fuckin right the next time around.
seems like joker is in the post traumatic victim mentality. It's not uncommon. I know i've been through it for a year or more of my life. I'm sure many of us have. Life falls apart,girl gone, job gone, start blaming others...use unhealthy addictions and escapes to avoid any form of pain or discomfort. (FYI joker, stop with the World of warcraft bullshit. You might as well be using heroine because it's serving the same purpose. And this is coming from someone who's a gamer.)
once you learn to free yourself of that mentality, you start doing real things with your life and moving forward. At the end of the day, you are accountable for what happens in your life in some way shape or form. Real "Men" Don't victimize themselves, they are accountable for their life and molding their life into what they want it to be. Being a man is not just about being testosterone filled, loud, territorial and jacked, it's about accepting responsibility for yourself and the things that happen in your life. No matter how many detours or setbacks, you can still attain most goals you set out to do with enough time, learning and effort.
again, i haven't kept with the drama and read maybe a few posts and just have an inkling of whats going on. So i don't know if this is justified or just the mob mentality at work. Truthfully? I feel a little bad for the guy. I'm sure he's brought it upon himself in some way as far as the backlash, but the guy's life is in shambles. The reality is his whole world and existence for x amount of years has come into question. Job, girl...things you invest a lot of time and hours to and all of a sudden they're gone. Self worth hits the toilet, etc.Now, was he dumb for making either of those choices? I'm willing to bet yes. MyWay has crazy written on her forehead. That's not to say he deserves a pity party either. You feel sad and grieve for awhile....and then you pick up the fuckin pieces and never repeat the same mistakes you made before.
Homeboy just needs to accept it,move on and create a new life. External things don't deny yourself existence. You define you. Life is a continuum. I'm not the same person i was this morning, and neither is anybody. I learned a bunch of shit that i didnt know before and had ideas i never had before...and tomorrow could be another day like that. Anyone who doesn't understand the concept of personal growth really is not living life...at all. they're existing, but not they're living. god, that must fuckin suck to live that way.
pussy comes and goes. so does love. so does money. so do friends. Times when you have a lot of it, and when you don't. just need to accept whatever the fuck is going on at the very moment and face it and ride with it. Whether it's the most ridiculous amazing time or the worst fuckin times, neither will last forever.
no matter what happens in life, at the end of the day you can always look in the mirror and say "what could i have done if anything, to make this situation better or not be in it?". Don't sulk about it like a 5 year old or get down on yourself for not doing it or realizing it. look at it analytically, digest it and make it fuckin right the next time around.
inkspot
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I resent you calling women whores you prick.
Get a life. The internet is not a life, it's entertainment. You can do it just pull the plug and live...
calveless wonder
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once you realize how far over your head his post went, you might find yourself wearing a neck brace
(no poboy)
not to mention the irony of your reaction to that statement
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