how to break it off with the girlfriend...

[Dieharder]

heres the deal, been with my current girlfriend for over a year, we've had some rough times, but pretty much everything has been fine. Thing is, as much as i love her, i just dont really feel that close anymore. I met another girl recently, and it just seems that we are much more alike. I really am bad with breaking things off, and i dont want to hurt her, but i think i really have to do it. She keeps commenting that ive changed...blah blah, and i really just want to be single (im 21 years old). Ive gotta do this soon, because im losing tons of sleep over it and its tearing me up inside. any advice bros?

 

[vinylgroover]

Just sit her down and give it to her straight. There's no nice way of doing it. At least that way there may be a chance that you can stay friends in the future. I know it doesn't seem important now, but friends are nice to have.

 

[Dieharder]

oh i still want to remain friends, im just beginning to see shes more of the "hang out with the guys girl" then the girlfriend material. this is so hard, fucking sucks man.

 

[RaZor Ramon]

Fuck trying to be friend. Just break it off. It's y'all are meant to be friends after this then you will be and if not then oh well. You're only 21. There is no need to be tied down at that point anyway.

 

[sweed]

Ya i agree with the Vinylgroover... straight up man.. im 21 too... its nice being 21 and not having to worry about girls.. I got other things to deal with. And im saving a lot of money! haha, good luck bor!

 

[vinylgroover]

oh i still want to remain friends, im just beginning to see shes more of the "hang out with the guys girl" then the girlfriend material. this is so hard, fucking sucks man.

she sounds quite cool, but if she doesn't get you hard then there's not much point.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Ive gotta do this soon, because im losing tons of sleep over it and its tearing me up inside.

I thought it was your roommate's skin slappin' sessions with his fat girlfriend that's keeping you up at night..J/K

 

[Dieharder]

I thought it was your roommate's skin slappin' sessions with his fat girlfriend that's keeping you up at night..J/K

well, that too lol, and i dont think fina is helping either

 

[RADAR]

It sucks i know ,theres no easy way! When i was your age i was head over heels with this girl i gave her my class ring so we were going steady,somewhere things changed (my part) I tried to break it up with her,but i couldn't take the bawling! After several times i finally said look its over ---damn! I still feed bad to this day she wouldn't give me my ring back so i had to remove it as she was crying her eyes out!
Now if you can get it done with less than what i had to go thru,....................................................


RADAR

 

[SoKlueles]

Yeah, tell her quick and be honest. Dang radar I still have ur classring
I had a bf in highschool, and i gave him my classring....dont remember why, but he wore it on his pinkie or on a chain, when we broke up, i was like give me my damn ring u peckerhead.
My mom would have killed me if i hadnt gotten it back