How Many of You Would Date a Person with a Kid?

[Big Buck]

Shallow fuck here......would rather just gamble having my heart broken by one person, verses 2.

smart girl....

 

[Galen]

Don't agree with Shags but I respect her reasoning. I wouldn't feel comfortable spending time with someones kids unless we were serious.

 

[Hannibal]

smart girl....

true dat...don't get me wrong I'm not saying NEVER...but I would really have to see a future for us before I would consider it. Besides its only fair to the child too...imagine that your daddy is gone and then I come along and the kid gets attached to me. Then if things don't work out the kid is heartbroken again...kids shouldn't have to have their heartbroken...going through a divorce is rough enough to have it happen again.

Besides like Shags said I'm sure I would become attached to the child as well...and I can only handle one heartbreak at a time.

 

[May1010]

single moms = damaged goods

 

[Big Buck]

single moms = damaged goods

what a shrewd comment......u don't know their situation. Too many men don't want to accept the responsibility that comes w/ fatherhood!!!!

 

[Freak Show]

Tough call. Tried it twice. I'm a bit young myself (24) so I wasn't sure how to deal with it. They never pushed their kids on me, but with one girl we went out to dinner w/ her daughter. I just felt like everyone's eyes were on us all the time. I felt like takin my placement and getting her daughter's crayon and writing,"This is not my child, nor my wife." I was younger when this happened so I blame it on being ignorant.
I would TRY (operative word here is TRY) if I was diggin her.
On a side note, my mom once said something that kinda hit home. When I was dating this girl my ma said, "well Freak Show, if you choose to get married down the road and have kids of your own, you have to understand that they will be so much more important to us." In that case it would be almost unfair for her daughter. Not that my folks would mistreat her, but its different cuz I'm there son and these kids came from me. My family and I have always thought 'long term'.

 

[Imnotdutch]

homosexuals = waste of space

Yeah I'm joking but my comment makes about as much sense as yours.

single moms = damaged goods

 

[HappyScrappy]

man, I tried to be offensive and nobody says anything.
what the fuck... maybe I'm just on too many ignore lists.

 

[slash747]

No Way!

Not because the kid would be baggage but most people coming out of relationship with kids usually in my experience, have emotional baggage that they carry with them....

 

[manny78]

hummm maybe but there's always the ex in background and thats what could pisses me off ... so I prefer to avoid these relationship