How does one, become an adult ?

[velvett]

you shure ?

I'm only sure that adults think that they know everything and it's for all the times they look back all the shit they now know they didn't know when they weren't adults and thought they knew everything.

 

[big4life]

I'm only sure that adults think that they know everything and it's for all the times they look back all the shit they now know they didn't know when they weren't adults and thought they knew everything.

 

[neverenuf]

turned 41 this year and still not sure...try not to do anything really stupid and youll grow up fast enough...enjoy the blissfull ignorance of youth...

you can have kids, run a business and still act like a kid when you want to...thats what i do...

 

[tinytank]

I'm only sure that adults think that they know everything and it's for all the times they look back all the shit they now know they didn't know when they weren't adults and thought they knew everything.

ooookkkkkkkkk ??

 

[WhiteCastle]

so im getting the impression, that the point where a person, realises they cant go about spending their money , on drink , strippers, video games , ect and thinking about marrage, kids ect, and take responsibility for your actions. is when you become an adult ?................Fuck That.. ill come back in maybe 10 years with a post " TT , oldest non adult in E/F "becuase sorry to say im not ready for kids/marrage..

No man, it doesn't have anything to do with getting married, I was just stating that particular fact about my life.... It really helps in my opinion, because then all of a sudden it is not just YOU that you are worried about.. You have someone else, that no matter how independent they are, still rely on you for support.. And I am not just speaking of financial matters.

You will one day wake up and realize it actually.. I mean, that you are becoming a 'man'.

You can use this analogy: Anyone can be a father, but it takes a special person to be a 'dad'.

Anyone over the age of 18 is technically an adult, but there is a big difference between being an adult, and being a man or woman.

 

[coldblue1955]

after a few convos, with Mr DB , and few other ppl. i get the impression that at 19 im not a man.
so im wondering, how does one, become an adult ?

they grow up.

 

[Chaddycakes]

ok, what about if ive taken a loan out, paid for a house, and am now paying the bills, buy all my food and shit myself.working,paying tax. but every so often my parents buy me something like a new suit ? am i still a man ?

Yes, because you are out of the house, and them giving you a present has nothing to do with supporting you.

 

[Cutiebaby]

There is no age where one becomes an adult.....It is based on maturity and responsibility levels not on age.IMO some one can be an adult at 19 and also some one can not be an adult untill mid 30's.........

 

[Quadsweeps Sister]

after a few convos, with Mr DB , and few other ppl. i get the impression that at 19 im not a man.
so im wondering, how does one, become an adult ?

-when you go to a bar and suddenly feel old
-when someone asks how old you are and you hesitate before you say it
-when you start watching HGTV and dream about home projects

....just kidding. I am not sure when it happens, but it does or it did. I don't know - I am of no help here.

 

[gotmilk]

-when you start watching HGTV and dream about home projects

No.

I watch HGTV all the time and I am still highly immature.