I feel that EF has some very wise females
Personally, I didn't become and 'adult' untill I was about 23! I mean, looking back on it now I realize I was still just a punk kid untill about that time...
I have since gotten married, been to war, been to school, started a business, think about the future and how the actions I take now MIGHT affect it...
Alot of it has to do with how you accept life and take responsibility for your actions and take care of your obligations.. IMO