***How bad is it to sleep with someone that has a Boyfriend ?? **

[GoldenDelicious]

this statement does not make sense to me.

you've already decided your fate in relationships with this statement - your lack of faith and trust in others predisposes your outcome and reveals your insecurity about the opposite sex.

you say that eventually cinderella will leave prince charming for someone better.

you either have little faith in people - or you are insecure in your relationships with females so you justify the possible outcome (being left) by saying it is human nature.

i have plenty of faith in the opposite sex. i have faith that theyre going to act the way people do.

...and my security in relationships stems from my inherent belief that i am worthy of choosing and holding my own partner.

(conceited? )

 

[alien amp pharm]

i dont disagree that we should recognize a degree of decency and consideration unto others. it seems to me that the root of our disagreement is that i do not believe that a man having sex with a 'taken' girl under the circumstances described in TTs conundrum are indecent or inconsiderate.

So when you catch your girlfriend (hahaha yeah right) screwing some random guy, you will not think the guy is doing anything wrong and has no responsibilty in the cheating that just occured, correct?

By your posts that is what you are expressing.

 

[Sub-Zero]

this same situation happened to me. i was dating a younger girl and found out what was going on, came home early from work and she was banging an even younger guy. i'm on house arrest right now and have some heavy fines i'm paying for what i did to the guy. i also through out my gf and her clothes. here is a picture from the court case, luckly i didn't go to jail.

dude that kids like 13...

 

[tinytank]

i have plenty of faith in the opposite sex. i have faith that theyre going to act the way people do.

...and my security in relationships stems from my inherent belief that i am worthy of choosing and holding my own partner.

(conceited? )

just to clear things up here as it been far too deep for me for the past 2 pages.. lol

i just want to hit that shit ! not date that shit . possibly more than once depending on how good she is... does that make me a bad person ??

and the fact of him beating me up .. well yeah is like a 50/50 chance he will... question you should be asking " how big is the guy ?"

 

[tinytank]

anyone know... i have a contract phone, anyway her B/F can trace my home address from knowing my number ???

and well she kinda had a pic of me too on her phone.....

 

[mrdeeznuts]

just to clear things up here as it been far too deep for me for the past 2 pages.. lol

i just want to hit that shit ! not date that shit . possibly more than once depending on how good she is... does that make me a bad person ??

and the fact of him beating me up .. well yeah is like a 50/50 chance he will... question you should be asking " how big is the guy ?"

don't ever under estimate anyone regardless of size

 

[Nathan]

So when you catch your girlfriend (hahaha yeah right) screwing some random guy, you will not think the guy is doing anything wrong and has no responsibilty in the cheating that just occured, correct?

By your posts that is what you are expressing.

The whole point of this I think is never get involved with someone who would cheat on you. If you do, it's your own fucking fault. You chose wrong. Nobody else. You misjudged their personality. Period. YOU fucked up. Ain't a damn thing you can do about it so move the fuck on. Live your life for yourself rather than wait around for someone who clearly is not giving you the same courtesy. If you get screwed, you get screwed.

Strengthen the fuck up people. You shouldn't NEED anyone like that as far as I'm concerned. You bring people into your life to improve your quality of living in some shape or form. Don't bring people in who will do the opposite. That's what life is all the fuck about.

 

[tinytank]

don't ever under estimate anyone regardless of size

i know that.. so do pritty much most of the unlucky ppl that have crossed my path ... im not boasting or shit, because for all i know he could have a lot of crazy ass friends..


but all i do know, is that he+she come from just outta town, and well... our town.. used to hire busses and have town wars ! yup, like chains. bottles ect it was just like a big war on the streets. yup its sad but true our towns hate each other .. ( Damm now non of u ever want to come to scotland )

it will be ok if i stay in my side of town for the next year after i hit that shit.. over here im almost untouchable..

so what are te pros and cons ??

pros and cons people ...

 

[GoldenDelicious]

So when you catch your girlfriend (hahaha yeah right) screwing some random guy, you will not think the guy is doing anything wrong and has no responsibilty in the cheating that just occured, correct?

By your posts that is what you are expressing.

lol ive had this discussion in the past (no, ive never been cheated on)

if i were cheated on by my girlfriend, i would feel more displeasure at her than i would at him. i would feel the most intense displeasure at myself for such things as overcommitting myself emotionally, for poor character judgement in regards to the girl, for any mistakes i may have made within the relationship that may have aided its demise...whatever

that being said, for whatever infinitely small part that random guy played for helping my (ex)girlfriend betray my trust and make me feel bad, or even if he played no part at all and was a victim of my (ex)girlfriends deceit as badly as i, well...since real life isnt a disney movie, he would have to accept the fact that there are bad, bad people in the world who will happily beat the hell of persons such as he for doing such things that he did, however insignificant, simply because they can. people like me

im a moral person. when im not being a vindictive prick

 

[tinytank]

lol ive had this discussion in the past (no, ive never been cheated on)

if i were cheated on by my girlfriend, i would feel more displeasure at her than i would at him. i would feel the most intense displeasure at myself for such things as overcommitting myself emotionally, for poor character judgement in regards to the girl, for any mistakes i may have made within the relationship that may have aided its demise...whatever

that being said, for whatever infinitely small part that random guy played for helping my (ex)girlfriend betray my trust and make me feel bad, or even if he played no part at all and was a victim of my (ex)girlfriends deceit as badly as i, well...since real life isnt a disney movie, he would have to accept the fact that there are bad, bad people in the world who will happily beat the hell of persons such as he for doing such things that he did, however insignificant, simply because they can. people like me

im a moral person. when im not being a vindictive prick

thanks guys , that just made me feel alot better .