At my age, the decent guys are taken, gay or in hiding from being jaded.
Very hard to date at this age....really!
And believe me, this guy seems so amazing. Awesome job (President of programming for security of the largest hospitals and University (been there 26 yrs) in the city, built his own awesome home, had 3 grown kids he raised, great body, good looking, builds Harley's for fun, nice car, seems so caring and kind, has rescue dogs....he seemed great.
Then he showed me his 5 yr old boy side! NO thank, I am done with emotionally immature men.