I'm not the jealous type at all...If I'm with a date and some guy whistles at her, I tell her, she usually smiles and replies that they're just little kids...No harm done.
If a guy begins hitting on her at a club and she brings it to my attention, I walk over and politely inform him that she's with me, and he's making her uncomfortable...end of game.
If at any time they become loud and obnoxious, I walk away and let them know they have issues they need to work out....
They put their dick-skinners(hands) on me or my girl....It's on....Pure and simple.
I've bounced in clubs for too long and try to avoid fights as much as possible, but sometimes.....sometimes. Some guys need to learn that a 300 pound attitude and a 130 pound body just doesn't mix very well at times, that the Fast and the Furious, or Fight Game are just movies, and buddies generally don't like the sight of their own blood....
As for you over reacting....perhaps a bit, but I'm not you, and cannot say what you did was wrong....just glad you didn't get jail time my man....Peace.
Ranger