got dumped..BUT I'M GONNA GET PUMPED, HUMPED, JUMPED AND BUMPED!

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

darwin, go to time settings, i think its +9:30

youre depressed, lonely, feel betrayed and let down, and the one you want to talk it over with is the one who is causing it. dont worry, you dont have to describe it, im living it

go out mate, i am

when did things end with you and your ex? and what were the reasons?

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Re: got dumped..

not going there. one day ill be free

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

not going there. one day ill be free

I understand.

If you ever wanna talk though, feel free to PM.

 

[BigTom]

Re: got dumped..

Talk about a shitty fucking feeling..... now I understand why that dude with the wife that left him for some other dude is all over the boards posting... you feel like you just need some release...

My ex.. who broke up with me Saturday night.. sent me this today via email when I asked how she was feeling about things, etc.

_______
Based on the the way i feel and how i was feeling towards the end, i
do feel that our time together is behind us now. I cant say anything
is for sure or forever, but that is what i feel and what my heart and
gut are telling me at this point. I dont like writing the answer to
this becuase it gives you the ability to read and re-read and maybe
reinterpret every word, but its too hard for me to keep having these
talks with you in person.

Maybe it doesn't matter to you, maybe it does, but i cherish you as a
person and that is something that i know will be true forever. if i
am lucky enough to be able to call you a friend i would feel truly
fortunate.

Brian, it kills me everytime i think of you hurting but i know you are
the strongest and best suited to deal with what comes your way and i
know 100% for sure that you will find happiness.

also, i've been amazed at the depth and articulate nature of your
emails. holy shit. you can write too!
_________

That email says "Its pretty much over, but if this new thing doesnt workout, i might come back to you, until i find something better"

I say getting on a cutting cycle, get ripped go to a club and get laid or bone her friends... better yet do both.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

I think I mentioned, I am on great terms with almost all my ex'es... normally its up to them because I'm usually the one breaking things off (although I do it within 3-4 months.. I can figure out of there is any potential within that timeframe) so basically if they want to stay friends its fine by me.

This is an email from my first love.. the girl I started dating when I was 21... she ended up breaking up with me, breaking my heart, and getting married to the next guy she dated.. we now talk about once a month.. I see her whenever I am visiting Phoenix (where she lives). She had emailed me last week just to say hi.. asked how I was doing.. and I told her about my breakup... here is what she said... things like this make me feel really good.
____________________
Brian,


Remember a few year ago when you were telling me that
you didn't know what you were going to do now that we
were not dating...you wern't sure if you were ever
going to find someone else to love. Well you did and
you will again!
My mom sent me an e-mail once that said "everyone
should have one old love to look back at and one new
love to show them how far they have come". You are
going to find that perfect person. They are out
there! I know that you think Sarah is the only
one...but remember how you felt a few years ago.


Not that I know how you were to each other, but Im
sure you did nothing wrong. You are a great guy and
any girl would be lucky to have you. I don't know
Sarahs resoning, maybe she needs time to grow up, go
out with the girls, be single for a while, who knows,
but don't be so hard on yourself. I know the kind of
boyfriend you are and she will be sorry someday.


Try to have fun in Vegas! Win don't Loose. And come
back to SanDeigo with a smile


Talk to you later.
Julie

 

[Longhorn85]

Re: got dumped..

Time to shake this thing bro. Have you ever seen the Godfather? Think of that scene when Johnny Fontaine went to see the Don and starting sobbing about his misfortunes. Remember how the Don slapped him around and told him to snap out of it, be a man and get on with his life? That's my respectful advice to you.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

Time to shake this thing bro. Have you ever seen the Godfather? Think of that scene when Johnny Fontaine went to see the Don and starting sobbing about his misfortunes. Remember how the Don slapped him around and told him to snap out of it, be a man and get on with his life? That's my respectful advice to you.

Thanks man. I remember that scene, and it sucks to think that I am that pathetic guy.. but its true.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

some more support from a friend...

hi Brian,
I'm stunned to get thenews. I'm so sorry...this appears to have been a surprise/shock.
Hmmm...... her comments sound like those of a young person. I wondered
what you guys would do when she left for grad school, but this is a
surprise.


I wonder what she meant about not liking who she was. Honestly, knowing you
as a friend and talking with you about relationships...I think you were
probably a great boyfriend. She's just young and trying to figure out who
she is. When people are in a state of flux, they are all in their own
heads and they leave a wake of damage...like a tornado.. You know...
regardless of it being a "line" that gets used, I really do think this time
it REALLY is her..... not you. She may just be scared of a long term
relationship at her age, or not be happy with herself down deep and is
changing everything in a random search for the solution.


I'm really sorry, it sucks. if I have any profound thoughts, I'll pass them
along. Ive got to run to a staff meeting right now though.

How are you doing??

Lianne

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

Ok as promised...

from the night in Vegas.. the funniest shit I heard.

One of my buddies is a good looking guy, tall, outgoing, fun... he's got a leg up on me because he is a decent dancer and likes to dance.

Anyway... he would be chilling in the club, and when a girl would walk near or be standing near him he'd say:

Him: "Would you like to dance?"
Her: "No"
Him: "Get the fuck away from me then"

Classic.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

ok so its been over 48 hours since last contact... still going strong.

I keep repeating golden's words in my head.... the woman i loved lives in my heart and dreams only (and I like to add in memory)... the woman today is a stranger wearing her face and speaking with her voice.