Glad is officially the father

[the.gladiator1987]

exactly, I told her id write a contract and have hr sign it and id keep receipts but I will DEF go through the court, that was nothing can be used against me and I wont get fucked and I will be safe. And if she gets that then I wont have to pay rent

 

[the.gladiator1987]

Even if he and The mother aren't together, he doesn't owe child support if he is living with the child. So if he doesn't move in with her and the baby, but is paying rent or other things for her and the baby, yeah he should set up CS because no matter how much he gives, it can all be considered a gift. But if he lives with the mother and child, he wouldn't owe child support for that time. You don't pay CS for children that live with you, that doesn't make sense.

Yea I forgot about that....if you are living with the kid then you dont pay CS lol. Danno?

 

[DannoMight]

Even if he and The mother aren't together, he doesn't owe child support if he is living with the child. So if he doesn't move in with her and the baby, but is paying rent or other things for her and the baby, yeah he should set up CS because no matter how much he gives, it can all be considered a gift. But if he lives with the mother and child, he wouldn't owe child support for that time. You don't pay CS for children that live with you, that doesn't make sense.

I guess every case is different, but a guy I'm close to just finished dealing with this. He wasn't with the mother, but lived with her and the baby for a while and the court told baby mama that he didn't owe her anything for the time he lived with them.

All in all it's a sticky situation and he may have to prove he's the head of the household and provide proof as well. A lot of it actually depends if the judge likes you or not. Its not good all around. But in Glads case it wouldn't hurt to have teh process in order. Just in case. Or just stash a couple hundred away each month.

 

[uamaverick]

Guys, every state's CS law is different, stop telling him this and that will definitely happen. Glad you need to go read what your state says inside and out, 5 times over.

 

[the.gladiator1987]

All in all it's a sticky situation and he may have to prove he's the head of the household and provide proof as well. A lot of it actually depends if the judge likes you or not. Its not good all around. But in Glads case it wouldn't hurt to have teh process in order. Just in case. Or just stash a couple hundred away each month.

That would fuckin blow if I had to pay back child support with all my silver I have bought

 

[AFeedz]

Nobodys telling him what will definitely happen. Even if he lived in my state, his case could have a billion different outcomes than someone else's in my state. We're just sharing possibilities. He obv doesn't know much about CS, but hopefully by hearing what other people have gone through he'll at least start to know what he's dealing with.

 

[uamaverick]

OK, good. You just need to let him know that. His brain is kinda slow.

 

[the.gladiator1987]

lolololololol

 

[the.gladiator1987]

fucker

 

[mrplunkey]

Develop a formal arrangement for support -- in writing. It should cover the money you will provide, other benefits (i.e. healthcare) as well as parenting time.

Then get a judge to approve it as your parenting plan.

If you don't, she'll have the opportunity to recover those expenses at any time.