Girlfriend and facebook- Guys and gals, your opinion please.

[hardrock]

I've never cheated on her, and she knows this. We spend all out time together for the most part, and we like it that way. She's not a er either but has had a few abusive/cheating ex's and automatically fears for the worst at times.

As far as young goes. She is 2 years older than me. I'm 35.

I really love this woman and plan on moving in together mid summer, but I'm not gonna deal with this shit everyday either.

 

[miplank]

pics of this bish to see if she's worth putting up with

 

[cindylou]

no, that would be a bad decision to appease her every wish like that.

This is true, at some point you can't change everything so she can avoid feeling uncomfortable. lol

 

[dshaw48]

She does sound insecure. At least compared to me as that's never been something I've worried about and yes that's her problem, but be mindful of being insensitive or selfish over something unless you really think it's worth it. You may not be doing anything wrong but what does it hurt to unsubscribe to people on FB that do not matter to you for the sake of someone that does? If they are your real friends that's one thing but to stick to your guns over internet acquaintances for recipes and words of inspirations sounds kinda selfish to me, just my opinion. I guess it depends on if you love her, or just like her.

I agree with this because she is the important one not all the other women. She just needs you to do this to make her feel important. But she also needs a good talking to about being secure in your relationship. I think if you remove the women then it may help her feel a little more secure.

 

[machine23]

I agree with this because she is the important one not all the other women. She just needs you to do this to make her feel important. But she also needs a good talking to about being secure in your relationship. I think if you remove the women then it may help her feel a little more secure.

I agree with this and what she quoted. If you love her that much and you are going to move in with her then just do it, but also have a talk on how she needs to work on her issue. But get rid of the stuff to show her that you respect her. Both men and women cheat for many reasons. Men are a bit more likely to cheat but just because some girl gives good head does not mean he won't cheat on her.

 

[nangiggles]

Maybe so. Maybe his standing his ground might force her to deal with her feelings, which is what she is attempting to avoid by asking that he remove those people. In my opinion that's taking something very minor and turning it into a real issue though, lol. It still seems kinda selfish to put his right to have internet acquaintances that don't really matter (and probably won't notice if he even unsubscribed) over the feelings of his girlfriend.

It just seems easier to me to unsubscribe. It seems like such a minor problem, a small thing to ask. If he really wants to stand his ground and turn this into an actual issue then he should do it with understanding, and kindness, not from a selfish and stubborn place or she'll focus on that instead of herself. I can't imagine wanting to open that can of worms though

I would totally do it for her IF this was the end of it, but it sounds like the beginning instead, specially now that he mentioned the playboy thing, how did she know about it for quite a while and NOW says something? becasue she now feels comfortable to be herself, for better wor worse.... I'm not trying to be a wise ass but it sounds like she's just gonna dig her claws deeper and deeper into you if you start caving into these things... I hope I'm wrong

 

[miplank]

tell this bish if she'd get her fatass up off the couch and on the stairmaster she wouldn't have to be jealous of all these other hoes.

 

[TableFun]

no, that would be a bad decision to appease her every wish like that.
She sounds really young?!
I love when my man watches porn or looks at other women. We are human, we look!
If someone is mature, they will not cheat...period!

What's wrong with his gf trying to change him a little, hmmmmm?

 

[superqt4u2nv]

I've never cheated on her, and she knows this. We spend all out time together for the most part, and we like it that way. She's not a er either but has had a few abusive/cheating ex's and automatically fears for the worst at times.

As far as young goes. She is 2 years older than me. I'm 35.

I really love this woman and plan on moving in together mid summer, but I'm not gonna deal with this shit everyday either.

That is awesome. I think be open and communicate with her about it the recipes and random tips are nice and who knows might bring more to her life too. If you are open with her show her you have nothing to hide it should be cool. If she is reasonable she will get over it and realize it she's got a good one.

 

[obsessedwliftin]

The answer to this question is really going to be best determined by asking youself where you are going with this relationship. If this is the girl you eventually want to marry then delete the damn FB and be done with it. If this is just a girlfriend that you are going to shack up with for a bit and see where it goes then I say stand your ground. We can sit here all night and try to disect her reasons, but only she truly knows what those are. As many have said, she is most likely insecure. I personally don't do the whole facebook thing anymore just because of the drama that usually unfolds as a result of having one. The "why is so and so contacting you?" questions get really old. Hope you get everything worked out bro.