Ending friendships......

[blueta2]

I am whatever you want me to be baby cakes...

checks in the mail ;-)

 

[heatherrae]

ppl who do dope are dopes ;-)

LOL...I agree, but damn that sounded like a nancy reagan created slogan...

 

[cboogsrun]

I am whatever you want me to be baby cakes...

I know a down syndrome who says baby cakes and then kisses his biceps. Reggie is that you?

 

[blueta2]

LOL...I agree, but damn that sounded like a nancy reagan created slogan...

I voted for Reagan ;-)

 

[Bikini Mod]

I had a habit of making friends who were not very nice to me, some of them were downright nasty and I sat there and took it, blamed myself (the only way I knew how to be). Then I did a wholelotta introspection, gained a new point of view and now I only have time for people who are positive.
<---- happy me

 

[Smurfy]

What's the difference between self-asborbed and self-centered?

lumberg and i had this discussion recently and I'll tell you my own personal interpretation. then you'll probably go search google for a better definition and find I am all wrong....



self-absorbed: living in your own little world. not someone who "puts themselve out there" so to speak. like i am satisified with my life and i require very little in the way of other people's involvement in order to be happy in my life.

self-centered: thinks the world revolves around them and their needs/demands. puts themselves before others and expects others to adhere to their demands. inflated sense of self-importance, so to speak.

so to me, these are two totally different characteristics.

 

[biteme]

I don't know that I have. I still have the same friends that I've had for over 20 years. I have 3 friends that I always keep in contact with. That's enough.

 

[biteme]

lumberg and i had this discussion recently and I'll tell you my own personal interpretation. then you'll probably go search google for a better definition and find I am all wrong....



self-absorbed: living in your own little world. not someone who "puts themselve out there" so to speak. like i am satisified with my life and i require very little in the way of other people's involvement in order to be happy in my life.

self-centered: thinks the world revolves around them and their needs/demands. puts themselves before others and expects others to adhere to their demands. inflated sense of self-importance, so to speak.

so to me, these are two totally different characteristics.

I'd say that I'm self-absorbed to a large degree. I can only be around people (including my friends), in little chunks of time and then I have to get the fuck away from them and back into my own world.

 

[biteme]

The main reason I hate work is because I have to be around other people all day. I love to work at home. People get on my nerves bad. You should see me in traffic. Bunch of idiots on the road.

 

[biteme]

yeah. i guess so

Your personality is a lot like mine when it comes to dealing with people.