I think you missed the point I know I can do it myself hello been opening doors on my own for a lot of years. It is just the extra effort the a gentelamn takes to walk around to the other side unlock the door and open it for your rare and very sweet.
I dated a guy who was adamant about the car door thing. I wasn't used to it. It seems kind of tedious and sort of unnecesary. It was a very nice genuine gesture though. But I could live the rest of my life without needing a man to open and close my car door.