Do you still talk with your xgfs?

[EnderJE]

I do. Mind you, it took along time for everything to 'heal up'; but now we can have rational conversations about things and have some general interest in each others lives. The closeness feeling that you have between lovers is now gone, so that's good too. I look back at those relationships like they are old movies that I haven't seen in along time. I can see what happens, but the emotional attachment is gone.

But with some people, I'm never sure if that's a good thing. One recently got divorced and she suggested that we hang out for dinner sometime. This was the girl that I originally thought I was going to marry 13 years ago. I'm sure it's all innocent and that, but I doubt that I'd hang out with her because I wouldn't want my wife to think that something was up. Even if she was fine with it, I'd be worried that she might still think something was up.

 

[silverstar1025]

Nope, I lost all contact with my ex. He had a real hard time after I left. I had a friend tell me that 2 yrs after he still couldn't get over me. I stayed away from that reason. It would not have been healthy to stay in touch. I do sometimes wonder how he is doing though. My Mom saw him buying diapers not long ago so I guess he finally was able to move on.

 

[Beachboy6294]

I talk to alot of my ex's now but it took some time before we could be friends again.

 

[needtogetarmy]

Since I started being on MySpace and Facebook they have all found me lol

I treaded all of them good, even if they treated me like trash. I still talk with them too.

Every single one (and I mean EVERY one) that I dated in the past that I am in contact with now is single and/or divorced with children. I think they are miffed that I have been married 12 years and now have a child. Their loss.

It pays being nice to people.

 

[Beachboy6294]

Since I started being on MySpace and Facebook they have all found me lol

I treaded all of them good, even if they treated me like trash. I still talk with them too.

Every single one (and I mean EVERY one) that I dated in the past that I am in contact with now is single and/or divorced with children. I think they are miffed that I have been married 12 years and now have a child. Their loss.

It pays being nice to people.

Same with me they have all found me on myspace

 

[needtogetarmy]

Same with me they have all found me on myspace

One of them is hitting on me bad. Write to me she dreams of me and shit. I showed my wife and she laughed. I'm glad the girl lives 1500 miles away or I would have a stalker!

 

[EnderJE]

One of them is hitting on me bad. Write to me she dreams of me and shit. I showed my wife and she laughed. I'm glad the girl lives 1500 miles away or I would have a stalker!

Whoa. That's pretty fucked up.

 

[Beachboy6294]

Nope, I lost all contact with my ex. He had a real hard time after I left. I had a friend tell me that 2 yrs after he still couldn't get over me. I stayed away from that reason. It would not have been healthy to stay in touch. I do sometimes wonder how he is doing though. My Mom saw him buying diapers not long ago so I guess he finally was able to move on.

I would have had a hard time to after losing you're fine beautiful soul and body!!!

 

[mrplunkey]

Hell no!

Forgot you ever knew them. Hanging out with an ex benefits no one if you're in a good, stable relationship.

 

[silverstar1025]

I would have had a hard time to after losing you're fine beautiful soul and body!!!

Aww thank you. Well he didn't appreciate me when he had me so I split. He didn't know what he had until after I was gone. Of course he would do things to upset me and I would take him back. I guess he thought when I said I was leaving it would be like all other times and i would be back. Little did he know that was for good.