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Do you still talk with your xgfs?

EnderJE

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I do. Mind you, it took along time for everything to 'heal up'; but now we can have rational conversations about things and have some general interest in each others lives. The closeness feeling that you have between lovers is now gone, so that's good too. I look back at those relationships like they are old movies that I haven't seen in along time. I can see what happens, but the emotional attachment is gone.

But with some people, I'm never sure if that's a good thing. One recently got divorced and she suggested that we hang out for dinner sometime. This was the girl that I originally thought I was going to marry 13 years ago. I'm sure it's all innocent and that, but I doubt that I'd hang out with her because I wouldn't want my wife to think that something was up. Even if she was fine with it, I'd be worried that she might still think something was up.
 
Nope, I lost all contact with my ex. He had a real hard time after I left. I had a friend tell me that 2 yrs after he still couldn't get over me. I stayed away from that reason. It would not have been healthy to stay in touch. I do sometimes wonder how he is doing though. My Mom saw him buying diapers not long ago so I guess he finally was able to move on.
 
Since I started being on MySpace and Facebook they have all found me lol

I treaded all of them good, even if they treated me like trash. I still talk with them too.

Every single one (and I mean EVERY one) that I dated in the past that I am in contact with now is single and/or divorced with children. I think they are miffed that I have been married 12 years and now have a child. Their loss.

It pays being nice to people.
 
Army Vet said:
Since I started being on MySpace and Facebook they have all found me lol

I treaded all of them good, even if they treated me like trash. I still talk with them too.

Every single one (and I mean EVERY one) that I dated in the past that I am in contact with now is single and/or divorced with children. I think they are miffed that I have been married 12 years and now have a child. Their loss.

It pays being nice to people.
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Same with me they have all found me on myspace
 
Beachboy6294 said:
Same with me they have all found me on myspace
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One of them is hitting on me bad. Write to me she dreams of me and shit. I showed my wife and she laughed. I'm glad the girl lives 1500 miles away or I would have a stalker!
 
Army Vet said:
One of them is hitting on me bad. Write to me she dreams of me and shit. I showed my wife and she laughed. I'm glad the girl lives 1500 miles away or I would have a stalker!
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Whoa. That's pretty fucked up.
 
silverstar1025 said:
Nope, I lost all contact with my ex. He had a real hard time after I left. I had a friend tell me that 2 yrs after he still couldn't get over me. I stayed away from that reason. It would not have been healthy to stay in touch. I do sometimes wonder how he is doing though. My Mom saw him buying diapers not long ago so I guess he finally was able to move on.
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I would have had a hard time to after losing you're fine beautiful soul and body!!!
 
Hell no!

Forgot you ever knew them. Hanging out with an ex benefits no one if you're in a good, stable relationship.
 
Beachboy6294 said:
I would have had a hard time to after losing you're fine beautiful soul and body!!!
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Aww thank you. Well he didn't appreciate me when he had me so I split. He didn't know what he had until after I was gone. Of course he would do things to upset me and I would take him back. I guess he thought when I said I was leaving it would be like all other times and i would be back. Little did he know that was for good.
 
silverstar1025 said:
Aww thank you. Well he didn't appreciate me when he had me so I split. He didn't know what he had until after I was gone. Of course he would do things to upset me and I would take him back. I guess he thought when I said I was leaving it would be like all other times and i would be back. Little did he know that was for good.
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meh, staying in touch just mind fucks me... I've gotta keep away.
 
juiceddreadlocks said:
meh, staying in touch just mind fucks me... I've gotta keep away.
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Yep. I agree with plunkey.. Not healthy at all. No need. I don't have hard feelings with my ex. If I ran into him I would be cool, but no need to be friends. It's funny that is the one and only person my hubby feels threatened by. He is not jealous at all, but the ex I can tell it bugs him. I guess because he knew I spent almost 6 yrs with him.
 
mrplunkey said:
Hell no!

Forgot you ever knew them. Hanging out with an ex benefits no one if you're in a good, stable relationship.
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I don't know about hanging out with them, but it's nice to e-chat with someone who knows you from time to time. Rather then the chat bots on here...

...although GS is getting better with the program, I almost think that you're all real people.
 
I'm still "friends" with most of them, meaning when they come into town we meet for meals or coffees and catch up sometimes. When I've been single I've even banged a couple of them because it's so easy.

Most of the time they just want an ego boost because they aren't happy with their current partner so they are very easy to seduce. Then they go away.
 
ponyfitness said:
I'm still "friends" with most of them, meaning when they come into town we meet for meals or coffees and catch up sometimes. When I've been single I've even banged a couple of them because it's so easy.

Most of the time they just want an ego boost because they aren't happy with their current partner so they are very easy to seduce. Then they go away.
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yeah, banging the ex = mind and heart fucking for me.

It's such an easy thing to see from the outside. Not maintaining much (if any) contact seems to be so much better in the long run. I dont think many people's stories end up like the movie Sweet Home Alabama.
 
EnderJE said:
I do. Mind you, it took along time for everything to 'heal up'; but now we can have rational conversations about things and have some general interest in each others lives. The closeness feeling that you have between lovers is now gone, so that's good too. I look back at those relationships like they are old movies that I haven't seen in along time. I can see what happens, but the emotional attachment is gone.

But with some people, I'm never sure if that's a good thing. One recently got divorced and she suggested that we hang out for dinner sometime. This was the girl that I originally thought I was going to marry 13 years ago. I'm sure it's all innocent and that, but I doubt that I'd hang out with her because I wouldn't want my wife to think that something was up. Even if she was fine with it, I'd be worried that she might still think something was up.
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They are "EX'S" for a reason. There is no reason for me to keep in contact with any of them, for better or worse. I don't understand why you would want to be in contact with an ex?
 
only one. . .but she "joined the other team" not long after we stopped dating. . .so my flirtations are completely harmless. . .plus she enjoys the attention. . .and i'm a good friend. . .

oh. . .wait. . .i thought the thread title said "stalk" (sorry. . .didn't have my glasses on). . .talk?? hell, i still exchange christmas cards with many of the women that i dated over the years. with few exceptions, we were friends before we started dating and after we stopped dating, we ended up being friends again. . .
 
Chocolate_Thunder said:
They are "EX'S" for a reason. There is no reason for me to keep in contact with any of them, for better or worse. I don't understand why you would want to be in contact with an ex?
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Mainly to see how people's lives have turned out. Just like I do with HS friends.
 
not one, that was then, this is now w/ wife and son. I would like to read about a couple to see if there OK and doing well. But that's all.
I had one call on my cell last year, late at night, wife sleeping next to me, just stammered "no, it's Tx bail bonds" and hung up. She asked what it was and I told her wrong number.

The bish called again the next few days and left me a mesage on my phone. I returned the call and got her cell, told her that I was married and that unless she wanted me to get my nuts cut out, forget my number. She could have atleast called my office, stupid bitch..... didn't hear from her again.

I've never been on Myspace or Faceplant, or whatever, wouldn't know the first thing about it.....
 
I don't get the temptation angle. If you both have moved on, then how is it different from seeing anyone else you know?
 
I just think all of this would lead to too much drama. That's the last thing I want to deal with. I also don't think the wife would like it.
 
Chocolate_Thunder said:
I just think all of this would lead to too much drama. That's the last thing I want to deal with. I also don't think the wife would like it.
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What drama? How is it different then going out with any other chick you know? Again, if you've both moved on. If you haven't, then I agree it's not worth the drama.
 
EnderJE said:
What drama? How is it different then going out with any other chick you know? Again, if you've both moved on. If you haven't, then I agree it's not worth the drama.
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What I mean is (hypothetical situation) you're married and an ex is calling wanting to get together, do you really think your wife or husband would be like "yeah sure, no problem?" No way in hell. You would hear about it in one way or another sooner or later. Even if you've both moved on. Drama and me just don't mix. I don't want or need any more than I have to deal with.
 
Chocolate_Thunder said:
What I mean is (hypothetical situation) you're married and an ex is calling wanting to get together, do you really think your wife or husband would be like "yeah sure, no problem?" No way in hell. You would hear about it in one way or another sooner or later. Even if you've both moved on. Drama and me just don't mix. I don't want or need any more than I have to deal with.
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Usually, I bring my wife along to meet my friends as well.

Dude, relax. You don't have to see my POV. Let's agree to disagree, but you're wrong.

:lmao:
 
EnderJE said:
I don't get the temptation angle. If you both have moved on, then how is it different from seeing anyone else you know?
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I guess it depends on the situation. In the past every time I would see my ex I would drop everything and everyone (lol) I was doing and go back to him. The only way I could stop was by finally cutting off all contact and I have to keep it that way. lol. I have no use for the rest of my ex's anyway and it would be a waste of time to keep in touch. I have a hard enough time keeping in touch with the people I care about.
 
EnderJE said:
Usually, I bring my wife along to meet my friends as well.

Dude, relax. You don't have to see my POV. Let's agree to disagree, but you're wrong.
:lmao:
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I didn't intend for it to come off that way. It's not that I don't see your point of view at all. I just wouldn't put myself in the situation.

That last part is funny. :FRlol:
 
cindylou said:
I guess it depends on the situation. In the past every time I would see my ex I would drop everything and everyone (lol) I was doing and go back to him. The only way I could stop was by finally cutting off all contact and I have to keep it that way. lol. I have no use for the rest of my ex's anyway and it would be a waste of time to keep in touch. I have a hard enough time keeping in touch with the people I care about.
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Maybe the problem is that you haven't gotten over them? Maybe you might want to work on that because it could have implications in your current and future life?

Whoa. That was deep.

Show us your tits!

Better.
 
EnderJE said:
Maybe the problem is that you haven't gotten over them? Maybe you might want to work on that because it could have implications in your current and future life?

Whoa. That was deep.

Show us your tits!

Better.
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Im married to someone else now, and although I'm more than likely over him, I still dont want to take the chance. I know it makes me sound weak or whatever, but I think its the best.

Good advice though.

He keeps trying to contact me for friendly lunches through friends of friends to catch up. lol. I just cant.
 
cindylou said:
Im married to someone else now, and although I'm more than likely over him, I still dont want to take the chance. I know it makes me sound weak or whatever, but I think its the best.

Good advice though.

He keeps trying to contact me for friendly lunches through friends of friends to catch up. lol. I just cant.
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Whatever works for you. We're not here to pass judgment and it wouldn't make a difference if we did. :)
 
Beachboy6294 said:
I talk to alot of my ex's now but it took some time before we could be friends again.
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I keep in touch with most of them... like every couple of months or so I get an email, checking up on me... it does take awhile to re establish friendship.
For the most parts the best relationships I had started out as friends and evolved... but I was kinda hopin it would the whole time, but yeah I remain in touch with most of them...
 
After I break up with someone, they're dead to me. No contact at all, even though that takes some work sometimes (call screening, avoiding 'ambush' meet-ups, ect).
 
canadianhitman said:
After I break up with someone, they're dead to me. No contact at all, even though that takes some work sometimes (call screening, avoiding 'ambush' meet-ups, ect).
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Yeah, the ambush meet-ups always end up as meat-ups + mind fucks... :bawling:
 
most of them wish I acknowledge they even exist

I'm not a real social network kinda guy

Only had one girl really hurt my heart, and she treated me like dirt :rolleyes:
 
Hmmm, I'm looking for the parody thread... can't find it. wtf? "Do you still 's'talk with your xgfs?"
 
I still talk with one of them.. she is a smoking hot Ukrainian chick in Denver.. I would be banging her still if she didn't live so far away..
 
drsketch said:
I still talk with one of them.. she is a smoking hot Ukrainian chick in Denver.. I would be banging her still if she didn't live so far away..
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Aren't you the guy who married his gf of three months and stayed with her all these years later?
 
My best friend today is my ex boyfriend who I was with for 6 1/2 yrs.
My ex of 11 yrs, he does not exist
my ex of 2 yrs, we kept in touch here and there but asked him to stop contacting me
 
Wait, WAIT!!!! Let' stalk about this before we go any further.


^^^wtf? Typo.
 
Most ex's contact me after they break up with their man. I used to just bang them until they found someone else. But, I turned them down the last couple of times.
 
Yeah I try and keep some around, for sex purposes. I'm pretty much dead inside so it doesn't mess with me emotionally.
 
Some of them, yes...
 
EnderJE said:
Does it matter? As long as there still isn't a 'connection', then who cares?
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Probably his wife....I had one of those once and she was jealous of wiminz I dated five years before we met and hadn't talked with since we broke up.
 
PuddleMonkey said:
Does your wife know?
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my wife mails out all the christmas cards so. . .yeah. . .she knows who i am still in contact with. . .she also knows that for the last (almost) 19 years her bed is the only one my shoes go under. . .
 
EnderJE said:
Does it matter? As long as there still isn't a 'connection', then who cares?
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define connection? lol just kiddin :evil: :p
 
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