My best friend today is my ex boyfriend who I was with for 6 1/2 yrs.
My ex of 11 yrs, he does not exist
my ex of 2 yrs, we kept in touch here and there but asked him to stop contacting me
Most ex's contact me after they break up with their man. I used to just bang them until they found someone else. But, I turned them down the last couple of times.