Conan is in big trouble

[Slopain]

tell he whatever she wants to hear, and keep doing whatever it is you feel like doing. Some lines you may want to use:

1. Your untrust leads me to believe you have a guilty conscience - is there somthing you want to get off you chest?

2. You low self-esteem will truly be the demise of our relationship!

3. Baby - trust is the single most important characteristic of a succesfull relationship, you want a sucesful relationship dont you?

4. Im fucken with these people, I know for a fact (cuz Im a mod) its an old fat guy, and we are fuckin with the board.

5. Im in love with Ranger DOE! dont say that one..

 

[Bikini Mod]

Hhhmmmmmmmmm, are you sure that it is harmless flirting? Or is it that you REALLY aren't committed 100%?

I am sure that this girl is very special and that ANY MAN would be pleased to have her for his one and only, however, that does not negate the fact that you may be taking things a bit too far on purpose.....maybe not.

I do believe that flirting is a lost art form. It should be HARMLESS intercourse (I am saying TALKING PEOPLE) between two people. Just a little fun conversation that doesn't mean diddly do. Both individuals know what the other is about and that is that.

Over the entire course of my 13 year relationship w/my ex YES, I DID FLIRT...but NOTHING HAPPENED - PERIOD. Nor did any guy that I was laughing/smiling/joking with EVER think that anything would. If any guy got the wrong idea, I straightened him out IMMEDIATELY.

I am a very secure individual and it would not bother me ONE BIT to see my honey (not that I have one) flirting w/a female. It is only two people of the opposite sex sharing a bit of pleasantry. If I can not trust the man that I am with....then I need not be with him.

So Conan, I think you need to ask yourself, "Whatup? Why am I behaving in this fashion? Is it because it is part of my nature and nothing is going on...or is it that I am kind of looking for a way out of this relationship because it is NOT what I really want just now?"

Be honest with yourself and do not play games w/her. Yes, your answer may hurt her now, but it is nothing compared to how she will be hurt in the future if you "give in" just to placate her now.

I would rather be told the truth, then to live a lie.

 

[Milhouse]

Don't take any shit from her but be nice about it.

My take on this is if you go "uh ok, I won't talk to girls anymore, your the boss" then whats next?
Think about it this way. Are you willing to spend the rest of your life with someone who will not let you flirt or look at the opposite sex.

I know I wouldn't.

Fuck it's time for all you guys and girls out there in relationships to stop taking unecessary crap from your other half and stand up and be a man/woman.

This is why I remain single, because I refuse to put up with shit or settle then less then I deserve.

 

[velvett]

Uh, what Bikinimom said.

 

[bignate73]

let her know that its words on the screen. even more harmless than smiling at the waitress, who you could actually bang (dont tell her this part, otherwise she will go off on a tangent about whether or not you are thinking about cheating) so basically this is internet banter, no more no less.

let her know that she lives with you and thus pretty much knows what the hell you do most of the time. (she may have forgotten)

remind her of who crawls into bed with her each night, who has done so in the past and who will do so in the future.

let her know that moving in with someone is a rather large committment and shouldnt be taken lightly, if you didnt dig her, she'd be living solo.

that should be end of story for worrying about "internet flirting". i cant believe she is actually serious......

 

[TxLonghorn]

Call her bluff.

If she calls you at work, just tell her, 'Sorry babe, but I got this Elite hottie I'm flirting with and I haven't told her about you, plus she sends me naked pictures of herself and tells me about her Conan fantasies, so I can't just spring it on her that my girl is on the phone now. Anyways, I'll call you in about 20 minutes, ok?'

Depending on how she reacts to that, you got it made.

 

[NinjaX]

conan if you really love this girl i say bite the bullet, but if you think you can find another girl then i say stand up for what you believe

 

[WODIN]

Actually slopain made great points on trust and self esteem, which are basically salient truths.

 

[MommaKin]

I like MadB's response....
It's women like her that give other women a bad rap.
Of course, who am I to frickin talk.
lol

 

[The Ranger]

I'll post as Bunny....you flirt like Hell with her/me...we will go back and forth....then have her call me....she'll feel like an ass....I'll even let her tell me what to post...

If all else fails...MB and Slopain has good ideas...

Ranger