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The Ranger
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Awwww Naty, surely you jest....No one here would think that of BM....
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TxCollegeguy
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Damn this sucks, I hope everything is going ok. Personally I would try to find out in what ways she feels you are disrespecting her...Tell her your thoughts about it and examine all issues to this situation
You could always use the classic line "Who cares where I'm getting my appetite, as long as I'm comming home for dinner"
Ranger We all Miss Bunny have you found any recent pics of her...lol...
You could always use the classic line "Who cares where I'm getting my appetite, as long as I'm comming home for dinner"
Ranger We all Miss Bunny have you found any recent pics of her...lol...
I'm wid Naty, BM
Maybe about 2% of those guys you flirted with were just funning, but if you had to correct any of them.....there's your proof.
Conan.....you understand her better than anyone else......she can't handle what you do......R U content to do as she asks? Over a period of time? like Forever? If not, get on your Harley, 1st box up her shit, then turn a few corners until she leaves......if she doesn't.....then you can do what you have been doing.
Natymike said:
With all due respect, most guys don't believe in platonic relationships. So even though you thought they didn't want a piece of you, I've seen your pic and can assure you that they probably had some impure thoughts
Maybe about 2% of those guys you flirted with were just funning, but if you had to correct any of them.....there's your proof.
Conan.....you understand her better than anyone else......she can't handle what you do......R U content to do as she asks? Over a period of time? like Forever? If not, get on your Harley, 1st box up her shit, then turn a few corners until she leaves......if she doesn't.....then you can do what you have been doing.
First off stop talking about yourself in third person-LOL
Second- if she felt secure about your relationship, it wouldn't matter, so it's the stuff between the two of you not here that is the real issue.
Are you sure that it's just innocent flirting, and that you wouldn't like to have a fling or two(rhetorical).
Most guys can't just flirt and leave it at that, especially at 22 & with mildly elevated test levels(LOL). Take a serious introspective look at what you'd really do if a girl really started coming on to you- are you sure you'd politely decline??
But the big thing is reassuring your girlfriend about your relationship. This is an everyday thing!! If she feels insecure, there will always be a problem..
Second- if she felt secure about your relationship, it wouldn't matter, so it's the stuff between the two of you not here that is the real issue.
Are you sure that it's just innocent flirting, and that you wouldn't like to have a fling or two(rhetorical).
Most guys can't just flirt and leave it at that, especially at 22 & with mildly elevated test levels(LOL). Take a serious introspective look at what you'd really do if a girl really started coming on to you- are you sure you'd politely decline??
But the big thing is reassuring your girlfriend about your relationship. This is an everyday thing!! If she feels insecure, there will always be a problem..
THeMaCHinE
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This is really a very simple choice. How much do you love your girl? How much do you want to be around her?
If you're flirting is bothering her, and you care about her feelings, don't flirt. If you do anything else, you're sending the clear message that you don't care about her feelings.
Ask yourself what is each of your motivations? Likely, she thinks you are acting innappropriately and senses a threat to the relationship. That is why she wants you to stop. Because she values the relationship.
Now, why don't you want to stop? Because of personal inconvienience?
From the outside looking in, I think if you want to be with this girl and you have a commitment with her, then you should stop. If it's not a serious relationship, then continue to make decisions based on your personal comfort as opposed to the comfort of the relationship and the needs of both people in the relationship.
Basically, think about what you would have done when you first met her. For whatever reason, people tend to stop doing the things that brought them together in the first place.
Good luck.
If you're flirting is bothering her, and you care about her feelings, don't flirt. If you do anything else, you're sending the clear message that you don't care about her feelings.
Ask yourself what is each of your motivations? Likely, she thinks you are acting innappropriately and senses a threat to the relationship. That is why she wants you to stop. Because she values the relationship.
Now, why don't you want to stop? Because of personal inconvienience?
From the outside looking in, I think if you want to be with this girl and you have a commitment with her, then you should stop. If it's not a serious relationship, then continue to make decisions based on your personal comfort as opposed to the comfort of the relationship and the needs of both people in the relationship.
Basically, think about what you would have done when you first met her. For whatever reason, people tend to stop doing the things that brought them together in the first place.
Good luck.
conan69
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you know what, there are some really great points brought up
After reading these and thinking for a while
i know i love her to death
she is attractive
she has a slamming body
very educated
puts up with all my shit...including non stop steroid use
....and we know what comes with that, (irritability, ect.)
Trust her more than anyone in the world
I guess i will do what ever she wants because i dont want to lose a great girl...
i just wish she would let me take some pics of her so i could put them up on the board...so you could see what is at stake...but it is her personality that is truly great
thanks again everyone
you really cleared my head
After reading these and thinking for a while
i know i love her to death
she is attractive
she has a slamming body
very educated
puts up with all my shit...including non stop steroid use
....and we know what comes with that, (irritability, ect.)
Trust her more than anyone in the world
I guess i will do what ever she wants because i dont want to lose a great girl...
i just wish she would let me take some pics of her so i could put them up on the board...so you could see what is at stake...but it is her personality that is truly great
thanks again everyone
you really cleared my head
THeMaCHinE
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Good choice bro.
Bikini Mod
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Good man Conan! Sometimes you need a reality check every now and again. It is ALL GOOD!
As for my comments previously. I need to clarify. What I meant to say was that I am FULLY AWARE that 99% of the men that I have and continue to flirt with have impure thoughts (Hell, I have them too - LOL!). BUT I MADE IT ABUNDANTLY CLEAR THAT THEY WOULD REMAIN JUST THAT - IMPURE THOUGHTS AND NOTHING MORE! Flirting for me is not necessarily an obvious sexually charged exchange of conversation. Unless I am on a job interview or talking to a minister I exude sexuality. It is part of who I am. I am very personable and love to laugh and have a good time. I talk easily to total strangers. I have been that way since I was a child and I will be that way until the day I die. I see this in my third daughter. (Not that there is ANYTHING sexual about her - SHE IS A CHILD.) But she is just sooooo social and such a pretty little thing that she just lights up a room when she enters it (as all my daughters do)
you can't help but be drawn in by her beautiful smile and obvious "I'm cute and I know it" air. We could not walk around in a public place without her waving and complimenting EVERYONE that passed by us...and I MEAN EVERYONE!!!! All of my girls are special, but I can see that she is the MOST like me in this respect.
When I am flirting FOR REAL - THERE IS NO DOUBT WHAT I AM INTERESTED IN AND WHAT WILL PURSUE THE CONVERSATION.....PERIOD!
Also, I am an equal opportunity flirter....I flirt with women, children, everyone. I just love to laugh and have a good time; bring a little happiness into the world.
As for my comments previously. I need to clarify. What I meant to say was that I am FULLY AWARE that 99% of the men that I have and continue to flirt with have impure thoughts (Hell, I have them too - LOL!). BUT I MADE IT ABUNDANTLY CLEAR THAT THEY WOULD REMAIN JUST THAT - IMPURE THOUGHTS AND NOTHING MORE! Flirting for me is not necessarily an obvious sexually charged exchange of conversation. Unless I am on a job interview or talking to a minister I exude sexuality. It is part of who I am. I am very personable and love to laugh and have a good time. I talk easily to total strangers. I have been that way since I was a child and I will be that way until the day I die. I see this in my third daughter. (Not that there is ANYTHING sexual about her - SHE IS A CHILD.) But she is just sooooo social and such a pretty little thing that she just lights up a room when she enters it (as all my daughters do)
you can't help but be drawn in by her beautiful smile and obvious "I'm cute and I know it" air. We could not walk around in a public place without her waving and complimenting EVERYONE that passed by us...and I MEAN EVERYONE!!!! All of my girls are special, but I can see that she is the MOST like me in this respect.
When I am flirting FOR REAL - THERE IS NO DOUBT WHAT I AM INTERESTED IN AND WHAT WILL PURSUE THE CONVERSATION.....PERIOD!
Also, I am an equal opportunity flirter....I flirt with women, children, everyone. I just love to laugh and have a good time; bring a little happiness into the world.
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