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true. On the off chance she is sincere and is going to tell him everything, is there a way he could confront her without putting her on the defensive? I would hate to see him push it and lose out and she is sincere and just got her timing screwed up. I do know she left and is divorcing the guy because of physical abuse and while that doesn't excuse her current behavior, I can understand some of it from being a cop. I dont' want to see him ruin his life either way.

 

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Okay, so now he asks the questions in a roundabout way of when she is moving up to be with him etc.

Her first reply was she will be moving in with him in June and it was stated as fact so he tells me. This sounds to me like a do or die thing, if she trips on that I say run like a bitch in heat!

On the baby, she wants to wait to tell the kids until after the first tri mester just in case something happens. I can see this as it would probably upset the kids more than the adults, but it leaves it open so that after she is moved in, she conveniently, but with tears has a miscarriage. See where I am going with this? He might be getting his ass set up. He has shit for finances, but his heart is what I am worried about more than anything else.