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[chesty]

Here is a conversation he just had with her and then a few minutes later while they were talking about the wedding she just abruptly logged off again.

Her: are you in a rush when it comes to us?
Him: meaning?
Her: exactly what I mean and said
Her: no answer?
Him: I would like to have you up here with me so that I can be a full part of your life and our baby's. I can't be that with you so far away and I am willing to live with you until the wedding we agreed to May 5th 2007.
Her: might be sooner, if that's okay?
Him: You moving in?
Him: Yes, that would be okay
Her: I still have alot of thinking and figuring out to do, just be patient with me
Him: Okay, I am patient, may not seem like it, but what would be sooner if that is okay with me?
Her: just don't push me or smoother me, not right now, too much going on....I know that may not sound right, but it;s the only way I can express what I"m feeling right now
Him: Am i smothering you or pushing you?
Her: I knew you wouldn't get it...Oh Forget it....
Him: explain it to me, I am trying okay?
Her: Forget it, just be patient w/me please...things will happen as they should
Him: okay, I will be patient with you.
Him: I'm sorry you have so much going on, I will do my best and if I seem to slip let me know and let me know how you feel so I can do the right things for you.
Her: thank you...I just need time to sort things out and make things work, I appreciate you wanting to help, but I can do it myself, if I need help, I will ask, promise
Him: okay
Him: If you want to move in sooner or get married sooner I am ready whenever you are and it is okay, just let me know and I will have things ready for you.
Him: just letting you know it is okay like you asked me a few minutes ago
Her: ok

I call your attention to the bolded lines. Now, did she just ask him he was in a rush concerning them? and he responded that he thought she should be up here with him so he can be a part of their life full time
and didn't she say that it could be sooner if that was okay with him?

And then is it me or did she just fly off on a tangent 180 fucking degrees to what she just said?

No wonder this poor guy is confused. He told me she thought he was being insecure because he felt like she was not wanting to talk to him. It was mothers day and her and the kids hung out all day, movie, dinner etc, but she apparently never informed him that they were going to do this and that she was going to hang with them. So her lack of communication translates to being insecure?

I'm lost, is anyone else? I might be telling him to run for the fucking moon.

 

[The Shadow]

you sure that the baby is your friends??


Dunno.....the hospital thing is weird

 

[Phenom78]

Wow. You're friend is a punk (no offense). He should ask her for his balls back and run. He could tell her "Honey, I'm just throwing this out there, don't get upset...but do you think I could have my balls back for a while. It's been a while since I saw them, and I'd just like to hold them for a little while.

Her: What

Him: I was just kidding.I love you. Keep them as long as you like

 

[milo hobgoblin]

P S Y C H O

 

[chesty]

That is what I was thinking, but you know what they say about love? It is blind and will cause a man to do some pretty stupid shit, including surrendering his balls for that little wet hole.

He is sure. He will know shortly anyway, the first time he goes to the doctors office with her and they do the blood tests. Apparently she can only have babies with someone who has negative type blood or she has to get shots to prevent her from dying. There are not that many people in the world with negative type blood and the chance of her nailing some other dude in the 3 days after her period to when he nailed her again, is pretty remote. He could've knocked her up while she was on her period.

Balls, I still got mine. I give you one chance, you get to lie to me once or omit the truth, after that your fucking done. You get no chances if you chet on me, don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out of my house.

 

[heatherrae]

Dude, this guy is DELUSIONAL!!!! He couldn't have knocked her up on her period, and it is so obvious that she is fucking around that it is just crazy. Whenever people are that inconvenient to reach and are acting that shady, it's normally because they are fucking around. She is most likely stringing him along in case her first choice of partner falls through. So, unless he happy to be the second string bf, he should move along.

 

[Phenom78]

Even if all the rest didn't exist this is a girl who has already been married twice, and accepted a third proposal without even being out of the second marriage (which she didnt bother mentioning to her new fiancee). There is nothing more to think about. He's an idiot if he doesn't move on.

 

[chesty]

I would agree, but it is his life and I can only tell him what I think and try to support him in his roles.

On the period thing, it does happen, my sister got pregnant twice when she was on her period. I would say though that it is rare.

I hope things happen soon for this guy, I hate seeing him so beside himself and feeling like he has to walk on eggshells. I think the litmus test will be if 1. her mom actually calls and talks to him, 2. If he actually meets her parents in two weeks as planned along with the rest of the family. I a sure her mom knows she is still married and getting divorced, I can't see her not telling him even if her daughter asked her not to say anything. I wonder if that is what she is waiting for? For her mom to spill it.

at any rate my boy needs his set back, that I agree with.

 

[heatherrae]

Even if all the rest didn't exist this is a girl who has already been married twice, and accepted a third proposal without even being out of the second marriage (which she didnt bother mentioning to her new fiancee). There is nothing more to think about. He's an idiot if he doesn't move on.

EXACTLY!

 

[milo hobgoblin]

That must be some good ass pussy.. or your friend just hasnt been with many women.