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[heatherrae]

and what would he do about his baby? I mean she lied to him or omitted the facts if you will, so unless he wants to be a part of the baby's life how in the hell would he get out of that one! She says she won't have an abortion that is out of the question.

She has promised to tell him everything as soon as she is ready to and has asked him to be patient with her. I can understand the abusive aspects of the relationship and maybe she is still afraid of the guy and maybe afraid that my friend would do the same.

But shit, she is gonna start showing in another month and she told him she doesn't want to get married while she is pregnant unless it is important to him to be married before the child is born. I personally would go for being married prior to since he asked and she said yes before they knew they were gonna have a baby.

Honestly, it is up to him whether he still wants to marry her or not. I don't think I would trust her, though. If they don't get married, and it were me in his situation, I would require a paternity test. If the results established I was the father, I would seek court ordered visitation with my child and pay my child support.

 

[biteme]

Damn. Better him than me.

 

[cboogsrun]

and what would he do about his baby? I mean she lied to him or omitted the facts if you will, so unless he wants to be a part of the baby's life how in the hell would he get out of that one! She says she won't have an abortion that is out of the question.

She has promised to tell him everything as soon as she is ready to and has asked him to be patient with her. I can understand the abusive aspects of the relationship and maybe she is still afraid of the guy and maybe afraid that my friend would do the same.

But shit, she is gonna start showing in another month and she told him she doesn't want to get married while she is pregnant unless it is important to him to be married before the child is born. I personally would go for being married prior to since he asked and she said yes before they knew they were gonna have a baby.

He should marry her while she's still married. If things don't work out he can claim the marriage isn't legal, cause she is already married and not have to get ass raped in court. Just looking at the positives. I know from personal experience once you start a lie it keeps rolling into a bigger one. Usually it is a lie in the beginning when things arent serious, so the intent isn't to hurt someone. i don't think she is being malicious, just scared now that things have gotten really serious.

 

[chesty]

I have talked to him about her before, I believe she is being truthful to him about everything except the still being married part and having already filed for divorce.

The kid is his as she was on her period apparently the first time they did it and then just a few days later as well just after it ended. Could she have nailed some dude in those 3 days, possibly, but not likely. He has a rare blood type and she is a universal donor so he says, so a paternity test wouldn't be tough. He wouldn't pay child support, she makes like 2 and half times what he does.

 

[Phenom78]

It just occured to me that after that whole lie about the hospital, how does he even know for sure shes preggo

 

[Sassy69]

If this is just something that has come up this weekend, then I'd give her a day or two, but this is obviously a big freekin deal. If she's putting him off, then very soon after a day or two, I think its only appropriate that your friend say "I need you to talk to me or I'll be looking into it myself..." Basically an ultimatum...

If she makes that much more than he does, it seems sort of strange that she would be stringign him along, but in general I just think its shitty when people don't tie up their loose ends before getting someone else involved.

 

[heatherrae]

I have talked to him about her before, I believe she is being truthful to him about everything except the still being married part and having already filed for divorce.

The kid is his as she was on her period apparently the first time they did it and then just a few days later as well just after it ended. Could she have nailed some dude in those 3 days, possibly, but not likely. He has a rare blood type and she is a universal donor so he says, so a paternity test wouldn't be tough. He wouldn't pay child support, she makes like 2 and half times what he does.

He would still have to pay child support. =-)

So, they did it once when her period was just over a few days and then they did it again just a few days after her period. Normally, we women ovulate during the middle part of our cycle, not just after our periods.

 

[chesty]

yes, I know that, but my ex could get pregnant on her period. Well, her mom is supposed to be calling him this week and they are supposed to get together with her family, father, mother, etc to celebrate the whole getting married thing, it will have been a month and she might be showing, if she isn't showing in a couple of months then I would say he is getting strung along. She is a small thing and would show rather quickly.

 

[chesty]

okay, so I was talking to her and i asked her about her screen name and she said it was partially her last name, so I told her I got the r and the m but couldn't figure out the k (the dude she is still married too). She just said it was a personal thing, so I left it at that.

 

[heatherrae]

yes, I know that, but my ex could get pregnant on her period. Well, her mom is supposed to be calling him this week and they are supposed to get together with her family, father, mother, etc to celebrate the whole getting married thing, it will have been a month and she might be showing, if she isn't showing in a couple of months then I would say he is getting strung along. She is a small thing and would show rather quickly.

I think it is impossible to get pregnant on your period. ??? You have shed the lining to which an egg would implant, and eggs don't come down at that time. ??? This girl sounds entirely FOS