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I plan on it. She hasn't told her parents, who I'm close to, but if I see/hear that it becomes a real problem (I.e. She doesn't agree to it anymore and he continues or he leaves marks) I'll tell her dad in a heartbeat.
 
Lol I'd never tell them for no reason, that's not my business, but if it gets out of hand, like she's actually getting beaten beyond her will, then you bet I'll snitch. :qt:
 
well, if it gets to that point she's telling you wouldn't she also tell her parents. At which point you aren't needed.
 
Your friend is a masochistic freak ---> This shit turns her on big time that's why she is doing it.



That is the only reasonable explanation that I can come up with at this point.
 
misguided03 said:
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then don't invent them...:mad:
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Because of this thread I can now disguise my spanking fetish with my girlfriend as a CDD relationship

thank you EF
 
My two cents would be just to not get involved for it may cause a riff in your relationship. If she has no problem with it then she can have at it. People need to walk down their own path and some times when we give advice it back fires in our face. If they have come to this agreement together then that is their life.
I understand your concern and sometimes it hurts to see your friends make some wrong choices but she is going to do it anyway with no matter what your opinion is. So you do not want any bad blood between the two of you or her to feel any resentment if you are standing in her wedding.
 
afeedz u need to boss up and say fuk this bish and her dumbass wedding if she wants to be involved in some stupid fukn shit like that then u can't stop her but if u go then that means ur supportin this type of religious shitfuck dumbass cornball shit
 
I know you're joking pokey, but not everyone can be exactly like us, I think it's a good idea to be tolerant of as much as you can. If she decides to not be a bridesmaid, she can say goodbye to the friendship. Not in a "we lost touch, we'll be friends on facebook" kind of way either. She'll talk shit about her for years every time she talks about her wedding.

If a woman asks you to be in her wedding, and you don't say no right away...you really can't back out of the wedding at that point and keep the friendship. I'm sure there are some circumstances, but not many...
 
cindylou said:
I know you're joking pokey, but not everyone can be exactly like us, I think it's a good idea to be tolerant of as much as you can. If she decides to not be a bridesmaid, she can say goodbye to the friendship. Not in a "we lost touch, we'll be friends on facebook" kind of way either. She'll talk shit about her for years every time she talks about her wedding.

If a woman asks you to be in her wedding, and you don't say no right away...you really can't back out of the wedding at that point and keep the friendship. I'm sure there are some circumstances, but not many...
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Yea, but Cindy, the friendship is gone anyway. He will see to that. The only question is will it be a slow painful process where that man will turn Annie's friend against her or will Annie stand up and tell her girl that this shit ain't cool. Either way Annie loses.
 
I prob will lose either way, so I might as well let her know this is a stupid idea while she still has her wits about her. I'm sure if I wait til they're married and he's hitting her, it'll be too late to reason with her.
 
why would u even wanna be friends with someone thats down with some fucktard shit like that anyways, u should just tell her straight up u dont fuck with her anymore if she can't grow up and live her life without havin to be spanked to do the fuckin dishes and make sammiches
 
AFeedz said:
I prob will lose either way, so I might as well let her know this is a stupid idea while she still has her wits about her. I'm sure if I wait til they're married and he's hitting her, it'll be too late to reason with her.
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I think you're on the right track Feedz. I know the advice here has gone both ways. For me though I'd much rather have the peace of mind knowing I did what I could to try and prevent someone from being hurt. Yes we all have to make up our own minds, walk our own paths, yada-yada. We also occaisonally need a friend to crack us in the back of the head when we're being stupid. And for my money a real friend has the guts to do just that. You do the right thing and let the chips fall.
 
cindylou said:
lol yes, that is a deal breaker :)
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haha well i think you're just kinda into this cdd thing then, if ur ready u got a cdd housedad right here.... ill start practicin my swattin motion, ill try it out on my gramma for a while and let ya know when i perfect it
 
bigpokey said:
haha well i think you're just kinda into this cdd thing then, if ur ready u got a cdd housedad right here.... ill start practicin my swattin motion, ill try it out on my gramma for a while and let ya know when i perfect it
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lol I am kinda into it as long as when I'm naughty, "disobey" and get spanked it leads to the bedroom. If I get spanked and you walk out the door there are going to be problems...lol
 
cindylou said:
lol I am kinda into it as long as when I'm naughty, "disobey" and get spanked it leads to the bedroom. If I get spanked and you walk out the door there are going to be problems...lol
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we could prolly make that happen.... send me a pic of ur booty plz so i can print out a practice target
 
cindylou said:
lol I am kinda into it as long as when I'm naughty, "disobey" and get spanked it leads to the bedroom. If I get spanked and you walk out the door there are going to be problems...lol
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lol if it was bedroom fun, it'd be fine.

From my reading, people in these relationships aren't suppose to allow spanking to be erotic (or if it is for them, they're supposed to differentiate btw that for pleasure and that for punishment) because that would undermine the punishment...a wife isn't going to stop her "misbehavior" if the punishment leads to fun. lol
 
cindylou said:
Afeedz do you have a biblical rebuttal to this lifestyle? I know it would probably be easy to put together.
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I don't really know what to say because when the pro-CDD sites for example are asked about the possibility this could be a gateway for abuse, they already quote passages saying a man is to love his wife as much as God loves His church (forget the exact words, but that's pretty much the verse).

All I have is those same verses, but their sites already use them to say their lifestyle is fine as long as the husband respects/loves his wife and that they do not condone non-consensual contact or abuse.
 
what if it's just spanking? based on what many have posted CDD is just spanking, I dont see that so bad in the sense that parents do it to kids all the time and it doesnt get out of hand, also she is grown and agreeing to it, hence the level of physical damage she will suffer is probably going to be low to mild and she actually accepts it.... punches, kicks, etc I cant stand behind but if my friend wants to get spanked and JUST spanked when she does something bad I think it's incredibly stupid and unnecessary but not dangerous to her well being or marriage....
 
nangiggles said:
what if it's just spanking? based on what many have posted CDD is just spanking, I dont see that so bad in the sense that parents do it to kids all the time and it doesnt get out of hand, also she is grown and agreeing to it, hence the level of physical damage she will suffer is probably going to be low to mild and she actually accepts it.... punches, kicks, etc I cant stand behind but if my friend wants to get spanked and JUST spanked when she does something bad I think it's incredibly stupid and unnecessary but not dangerous to her well being or marriage....
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I've read that it's mainly spanking also, but it seems it's not always done with one's hand and I can see how that'd be much more painful.

Anyways, my concern is not that spanking will particularly harm her. My concern is that she's laying ground work that makes it acceptable at all to put his hands on her in that way. I feel as though it'd be easy for it to gradually become more than just a slap on the ass for some misbehavior if this guy even has a slight temperal/emotional control problem.

I think this is a gateway decision with the probability of it spinning out of control.
 
nangiggles said:
what if it's just spanking? based on what many have posted CDD is just spanking, I dont see that so bad in the sense that parents do it to kids all the time and it doesnt get out of hand, also she is grown and agreeing to it, hence the level of physical damage she will suffer is probably going to be low to mild and she actually accepts it.... punches, kicks, etc I cant stand behind but if my friend wants to get spanked and JUST spanked when she does something bad I think it's incredibly stupid and unnecessary but not dangerous to her well being or marriage....
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The reason why I think it is dangerous is because it is humiliating. She is placed lower than the husband, even if it is just spanking. She can't do it to him. She is not a child and should not be treated as such. So if he doesn't hurt her physically it is still psychological abuse.
 
just...v said:
The reason why I think it is dangerous is because it is humiliating. She is placed lower than the husband, even if it is just spanking. She can't do it to him. She is not a child and should not be treated as such. So if he doesn't hurt her physically it is still psychological abuse.
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all women are lower than men...
 
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did anyone here who was catholic/christian have to go to CCD as a kid?

I actually liked CCD. we'd never pay attention to the bible stuff and half the time we'd go outside and play football/basketball and during the later years, flirt with the chicks in our class. a lot of the time it was at one of the chick's houses and their mom would do the instructing
 
So I had lunch with this friend today and tried to tactfully express my concerns.

Long conversation short, she pretty much said she's a bit unsure about it, but that she loves her fiancé so she wants try. Apparently, when he brought it up, she told him she was a little unsure/uneasy about it, but that he pretty much told her that's the type of relationship he sees himself having with his future wife, period. She beat around the bush and said it more nicely, but that's the gist.

Now I'm more concerned because she doesn't even seem to want this. It seems like she's just doing it bc she's afraid to be without him, and since he probably knows that now that she agreed to do this, I can only imagine this decision is a slippery slope to a life of being taken advantage of and probably inappropriate punishments.
 
AFeedz said:
So I had lunch with this friend today and tried to tactfully express my concerns.

Long conversation short, she pretty much said she's a bit unsure about it, but that she loves her fiancé so she wants try. Apparently, when he brought it up, she told him she was a little unsure/uneasy about it, but that he pretty much told her that's the type of relationship he sees himself having with his future wife, period. She beat around the bush and said it more nicely, but that's the gist.

Now I'm more concerned because she doesn't even seem to want this. It seems like she's just doing it bc she's afraid to be without him, and since he probably knows that now that she agreed to do this, I can only imagine this decision is a slippery slope to a life of being taken advantage of and probably inappropriate punishments.
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Oh great. She can NOT marry this guy! Blinded by love poor thing.

Do you attend church anywhere? Do you have a pastor or priest you can speak with that will give them a premarital counseling session?
 
cindylou said:
Oh great. She can NOT marry this guy! Blinded by love poor thing.

Do you attend church anywhere? Do you have a pastor or priest you can speak with that will give them a premarital counseling session?
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It could be worse. She could be marrying an atheist!
 
tha shits tragic yo, tell her to tell her parents if she's unsure bout it, surely they wont let her marry this goob

btw is this the friend u hang out with to make u feel smart?? kinda like 6's that hang with fatties to make themselves look good? how dumb u gotta be really to consider some shit like that? u know her sat score?
 
cindylou said:
Oh great. She can NOT marry this guy! Blinded by love poor thing.

Do you attend church anywhere? Do you have a pastor or priest you can speak with that will give them a premarital counseling session?
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I feel the same way.

She and I used to attend the same church, but she's been attending her fiance's church for a while now sooo chances of her getting him to go see my/her old pastor are slim to none.
 
bigpokey said:
tha shits tragic yo, tell her to tell her parents if she's unsure bout it, surely they wont let her marry this goob

btw is this the friend u hang out with to make u feel smart?? kinda like 6's that hang with fatties to make themselves look good? how dumb u gotta be really to consider some shit like that? u know her sat score?
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lol I feel smart without her. :biggrin:

...but she's not dumb...or she wasn't dumb anyways. She's never done anything like this before. I don't know wtf happened to her.
 
AFeedz said:
Now I'm more concerned because she doesn't even seem to want this. It seems like she's just doing it bc she's afraid to be without him, and since he probably knows that now that she agreed to do this, I can only imagine this decision is a slippery slope to a life of being taken advantage of and probably inappropriate punishments.
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Yea, this is a total train wreck waiting to happen. He already seems like he isn't concerned with her feelings. His way or the highway, once they are married it will be his way or the belt. He is already putting his wants and needs above hers and this is supposed to be the best part of the marriage. It's gonna get so much worse.
 
just...v said:
Yea, this is a total train wreck waiting to happen. He already seems like he isn't concerned with her feelings. His way or the highway, once they are married it will be his way or the belt. He is already putting his wants and needs above hers and this is supposed to be the best part of the marriage. It's gonna get so much worse.
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Unfortunately, I'm sure you're right.
 
just...v said:
Yea, this is a total train wreck waiting to happen. He already seems like he isn't concerned with her feelings. His way or the highway, once they are married it will be his way or the belt. He is already putting his wants and needs above hers and this is supposed to be the best part of the marriage. It's gonna get so much worse.
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wurd
 
mrplunkey said:
It could be worse. She could be marrying an atheist!
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Atheists have "better" morality than most of these Christian types.

Your friend is dumb, if she's going into this than let her do it. Her happiness should come from within, not from this dude who's talking her into stupid shit. Sounds like a typical needy bitch who clings onto the wrong type of relationship. This person is most likely not worth being your friend - after she's married she will fade away into you never talking to her anyway.
 
UA_Iron said:
Atheists have "better" morality than most of these Christian types.

Your friend is dumb, if she's going into this than let her do it. Her happiness should come from within, not from this dude who's talking her into stupid shit. Sounds like a typical needy bitch who clings onto the wrong type of relationship. This person is most likely not worth being your friend - after she's married she will fade away into you never talking to her anyway.
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*then
 
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