CDD Relationships

[AFeedz]

lol I am kinda into it as long as when I'm naughty, "disobey" and get spanked it leads to the bedroom. If I get spanked and you walk out the door there are going to be problems...lol

lol if it was bedroom fun, it'd be fine.

From my reading, people in these relationships aren't suppose to allow spanking to be erotic (or if it is for them, they're supposed to differentiate btw that for pleasure and that for punishment) because that would undermine the punishment...a wife isn't going to stop her "misbehavior" if the punishment leads to fun. lol

 

[cindylou]

Afeedz do you have a biblical rebuttal to this lifestyle? I know it would probably be easy to put together.

 

[AFeedz]

Afeedz do you have a biblical rebuttal to this lifestyle? I know it would probably be easy to put together.

I don't really know what to say because when the pro-CDD sites for example are asked about the possibility this could be a gateway for abuse, they already quote passages saying a man is to love his wife as much as God loves His church (forget the exact words, but that's pretty much the verse).

All I have is those same verses, but their sites already use them to say their lifestyle is fine as long as the husband respects/loves his wife and that they do not condone non-consensual contact or abuse.

 

[AFeedz]

I'm having dinner with this friend Thursday. I'll let you guys know when I fail miserably. lol

 

[bigpokey]

im still loln bout those cdd fictional stories

 

[nangiggles]

what if it's just spanking? based on what many have posted CDD is just spanking, I dont see that so bad in the sense that parents do it to kids all the time and it doesnt get out of hand, also she is grown and agreeing to it, hence the level of physical damage she will suffer is probably going to be low to mild and she actually accepts it.... punches, kicks, etc I cant stand behind but if my friend wants to get spanked and JUST spanked when she does something bad I think it's incredibly stupid and unnecessary but not dangerous to her well being or marriage....

 

[AFeedz]

what if it's just spanking? based on what many have posted CDD is just spanking, I dont see that so bad in the sense that parents do it to kids all the time and it doesnt get out of hand, also she is grown and agreeing to it, hence the level of physical damage she will suffer is probably going to be low to mild and she actually accepts it.... punches, kicks, etc I cant stand behind but if my friend wants to get spanked and JUST spanked when she does something bad I think it's incredibly stupid and unnecessary but not dangerous to her well being or marriage....

I've read that it's mainly spanking also, but it seems it's not always done with one's hand and I can see how that'd be much more painful.

Anyways, my concern is not that spanking will particularly harm her. My concern is that she's laying ground work that makes it acceptable at all to put his hands on her in that way. I feel as though it'd be easy for it to gradually become more than just a slap on the ass for some misbehavior if this guy even has a slight temperal/emotional control problem.

I think this is a gateway decision with the probability of it spinning out of control.

 

[bigpokey]

i just mehciated nan for that post

 

[just...v]

what if it's just spanking? based on what many have posted CDD is just spanking, I dont see that so bad in the sense that parents do it to kids all the time and it doesnt get out of hand, also she is grown and agreeing to it, hence the level of physical damage she will suffer is probably going to be low to mild and she actually accepts it.... punches, kicks, etc I cant stand behind but if my friend wants to get spanked and JUST spanked when she does something bad I think it's incredibly stupid and unnecessary but not dangerous to her well being or marriage....

The reason why I think it is dangerous is because it is humiliating. She is placed lower than the husband, even if it is just spanking. She can't do it to him. She is not a child and should not be treated as such. So if he doesn't hurt her physically it is still psychological abuse.

 

[miplank]

The reason why I think it is dangerous is because it is humiliating. She is placed lower than the husband, even if it is just spanking. She can't do it to him. She is not a child and should not be treated as such. So if he doesn't hurt her physically it is still psychological abuse.

all women are lower than men...