lol.
I could see myself saying and doing the same thing.
I can no where bench near the 565, but am slowly getting closer every year. About 3 years ago was the first time i ever tried benching 405. At the time, i had probably been training for about 6-7 years, maybe 3-4 serious. I had a lift off and everything, but my body wasnt ready for the extra weight. My shoulders, elbows, and wrists hurt, so i knew i wasnt ready for that much weight even though i could handle 355 or 365 (335 was my high at the time without getting a lift off). Now, i can do 405 for 5 sets of 5 (probably max around 475 or so, but not intending too) without a lift or any thing hurting. I could probably handle warming up with 225 with ease, but would rather throw around 135 for a few quick/easy reps. A big/strong bench comes with time and a TON of dedication. It also helps to constantly change things up, whether it be set, rep, or routine schemes.