been cheated on

[poyegirl]

hi this is my first post here, im normally in the other forums but here it goes.i recently found out my gf of 4.5 years has cheated on me. ive always thought if it happened i would just end it, but i realy dont want that option, i cant even explane how messed up i feel. i havent confronted her yet, i kinda want her to fess up to it, it happend while we were in a low spot in the relationship and took a couple weeks apart which was the beginning of this month.
i basically just need to vent, there is really no1 i can talk to about this in person not even my best friend.

i would get out now. once a cheater alway a cheater. i went out for a guy for 3 years and he cheated on me once that i knew at the time. once we finally broke it off after 3 years, i found out he cheated on me 3 times and didn't tell me because what happen when he told me the 1st time. i also found out he cheated on me once before the time he told me.


also i am married to guy that was with his ex wife for 9 years and found out she cheat on him. he tryed to work it out but after 6 months of trying they ended it and then found out she cheated 3 other time also. they also have a 3 year old daughter so it make it more confusing and they lived toeither for like 5 years and he made all the income. but he even say that it was the best thing he ever did when he broke it off with her.

trust me you will find some one better for you even if right now you think it will be hard.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

how could you ever have sex with a woman that cheated on you? i toss her off the balcony first, before i do something like that.

 

[wootoom]

like i said....join the club dont even ask me

 

[Cutiebaby]

like i said....join the club dont even ask me

see now that you said that I feel the need to ask

 

[wootoom]

see now that you said that I feel the need to ask

put it this way i hate cheaters lol

 

[Cutiebaby]

put it this way i hate cheaters lol

Wow that is deep. I get what you are saying though..

 

[cboogsrun]

hi this is my first post here, im normally in the other forums but here it goes.i recently found out my gf of 4.5 years has cheated on me. ive always thought if it happened i would just end it, but i realy dont want that option, i cant even explane how messed up i feel. i havent confronted her yet, i kinda want her to fess up to it, it happend while we were in a low spot in the relationship and took a couple weeks apart which was the beginning of this month.
i basically just need to vent, there is really no1 i can talk to about this in person not even my best friend.

If you don't have kids with her, I would say bye bye, before you knock her up and feel that you deserve better. I just went through a very simular ordeal, but I have children with her, but I feel I deserve better. But because I don't believe in punishing my children because their parents are dumb shits, I stay.

 

[silverstar1025]

put it this way i hate cheaters lol

Wow that sucks. Now I understand why the divorce. Sorry to hear that!

 

[wootoom]

Wow that sucks. Now I understand why the divorce. Sorry to hear that!

ya but she thinks this isnt why.....she hasnt been happy for a year now

 

[fistfullofsteel]

ya but she thinks this isnt why.....she hasnt been happy for a year now

fucking women and their bullshit excuses. women = i was sucking another man's cock because i am unhappy in our marriage. what the fuck is that? they even blame the guy for their cheating.