I've had multiple year relationships with a number of women that have lasted over a year... Goes back to high school and college.I was with Shelagh for 4 1/2 years...STFU haterlou.
BTW, Johny was a low life cheater with the scummiest of bar flies, even when you were dating in college and you chose to ignore it and marry him. You dated a scumbag cheater and then decided to marry him... I've never cheated but you chose to force Johny to have a child knowing full well he is a man child...incapable of being responsible. You are fully responsible for Abby having an absentee father just like Rick Sanatorium condemns every decision you made...