19 and havent had a girlfriend

[casavant]

I hear meth is good for that.

 

[makedah]

If a woman likes you, then she likes you. LOTS of 19-year-olds have never been in a relationship.

p60 - Deal with those anxiety/self-esteem issues, ok, hon? Otherwise, you'll talk yourself out of every potential flirtation or you'll end up with some woman who mistreats you and you won't be able to "see" it because that's how you treat yourself. Been there, done that.

 

[biteme]

Didn't have one until I was 18 and she was jealous of girls that I had gone out with. Doesn't really matter.

 

[Corky Thatcher]

I thought I would ask you guys something for a little opinion,

Ironically these days one of the things that I am self conscious about is the fact that I am 19 years old and I havent had a girlfriend. I know that at this age, this is considered somewhat more common. Some reason though I worry that women will judge me for this if they find out, and think that I am not worth the time.


So anyways, what I came to ask is this:

I know girls will negatively judge a guy if they've had 'too many' girlfriends in the past...
but would they negatively judge a guy if they've had 'too few' girlfriends in the past?

Like I've already said in your other thread, you should seriously think about seeking help from a qualified mental health professional in your area.

 

[Lao Tzu]

wait until you've turned 24 and haven't had a girlfriend. i'm looking forward to being 30 and never been on a date.

 

[the nature boy]

dude, don't worry. Bullit is in your shoes and he's in his early 30's. and look at him, he's fine..... well........ hmmmmmm...... actually nevermind. he's fucked up. don't be like him.

here's some advice, when in doubt, lie. if some chick asks how many g/f's you've had say 2 or someshit.

 

[Corky Thatcher]

wait until you've turned 24 and haven't had a girlfriend. i'm looking forward to being 30 and never been on a date.

Have your general physician refer you to a mental health professional in your area.

 

[Lao Tzu]

Have your general physician refer you to a mental health professional in your area.

a nice mixture of introversion and apathy is not a mental condition.

 

[Corky Thatcher]

a nice mixture of introversion and apathy is not a mental condition.

That neat little combo could be symptomatic of an underlying mental problem, such as protracted depression.

 

[p60]

Re: Re: 19 and havent had a girlfriend

Like I've already said in your other thread, you should seriously think about seeking help from a qualified mental health professional in your area.

i currently am,

i have obsessive thinking issues, where my thoughts sometimes stop my life from going on and all i can do is sit and think about this stuff.
it feels like I have no control and can't make myself stop!
I pray that someday I will be able to make myself stop.