UPDATE Sexless and Happy is Possible

[digimon7068]

that sir, is where you go wrong! Our beloved president proclaimed that oral sex is not sexual relations.

Blowjob became the new handshake.

You could also think of it as masturbation using an aid...someone else's mouth!

Either way, it's not vaginal penetration.

he also said "it depends on how you define the word it"

 

[bigtravis]

then he suffers from terminal phagocytosis.

lmao

 

[just...v]

I have a solid "dude must go down first" policy

 

[mrplunkey]

he also said "it depends on how you define the word it"

Was it "it" or was it "is"?

 

[Strongbow]

I have a solid "dude must go down first" policy

What ?

 

[bigtravis]

What ?

Just think of it in reverse and you'll get it.

 

[just...v]

What ?

There is no way a dude would get a bj from me without me gettin a little something first. I need to kno he is good at the tongue action before I show him my skills.

 

[Rachel...lol]

Would somebody tell me when oral sex stopped being sex? I missed that bus.

Actually MM - I think you are correct; I do feel sexually fulfilled because we are doing other things - not vaginal penetration at this point.

There are other ways to feel connected on a sexual level without actual intercourse, and right now it's totally working for me. My thread title should be changed to represent such

 

[musclemom]

This is Bill Clinton's legacy. He convinced an entire generation of young girls that blowjobs aren't sex.

The man does deserve some credit. You've got to be doing something right when the most powerful man in the world can overwhelm a 21-year old chubby intern in the oval office, put her on a regular blowjob schedule and then still get 80% of the soccermom vote.

OH, HORSESHIT.

Sex is sex. When you contact another person's bathing suit parts with some part of your body, it's S-E-X. Blaming Clinton for a change in the definition of what is and isn't sex is attributing far too much to the man's influence.

Of course, one could argue that Clinton changing the moral face of this country is no different than what Bush has done to erode the concept of personal freedom and dismantle the Constitution

 

[Rachel...lol]

I have a solid "dude must go down first" policy

This is where you and I differ - I don't see the "go down first" as a power struggle. I either want to do it for a man, or I don't. And when I do it, because I WANT to do it and I ENJOY it, foreplay/sexual intercourse is soooooo much better because it's not just a means to an end.