UPDATE Sexless and Happy is Possible

[cindylou]

I don't know how the guy can do it. My first inclination was closet homo. I'd have knocked that shit out the park first night. Good luck Rachel, but be slightly suspicious and stay just guarded enough. Don't rush into falling head over heels just because he isn't a normal red-blooded, testosterone filled male.

That's exactly what I was going to suggest to guard her heart, even if just a little hold back a little of herself. It will sustain you Rachel if it does not work out. I think what he is doing is a good thing imo..not something to be suspicous about

 

[ponyfitness]

Am I the only guy that thinks getting 3 hummers without having to do any work and then rolling over and going to sleep isn't really a bad thing?

He's also smart - building the anticipation ensures that no matter how crappy he is in bed, she will be climbing the walls to actually experience penetration for the first time. Smart bro in my book.

 

[OMEGA]

hes sounds like a good guy!

good for You Rach!

 

[digimon7068]

guys i'm not the one not giving it up

he's gay and you're his new fag-hag...

 

[Strongbow]

Dude is geigh. I never insist upon sex on the first date, but I do highly suggest that they at least watch me jerk off.

 

[OMEGA]

Good for you Rach!

Sex fucks everything up, but I love to fuck. I guess that makes me a fuck up? lol

Good luck with the interview and the new guy

man I farking love you lol

 

[needtogetarmy]

This sounds like the foundation of a good relationship! Good luck Rachel.

 

[Strongbow]

AV for the love of The Baby Jesus change your avi.

 

[ricco561]

Thanks He did get 3 awesome blowjobs in an hour and there was plenty of playing with my kitty - but still, it means something. and there is a very strange connection. I have no doubt that the end result will be fantastic.

So he laid back, closed his eyes and thought of his boy friend.

 

[ceo]

Dude is geigh. I never insist upon sex on the first date, but I do highly suggest that they at least watch me jerk off.

Really? By the time the first date rolled around for me, we had already had sex.