kids are annoying and pointless thread

[shirlene29]

The chances that your GF will want kids will escalate over time. At 22, my GF (future wife) didn't think she'd want children. She turns 27 this month and we have #2 and #3 on the way. She's and incredible mom by any measure -- I've been very impressed.

And there's plenty of good news. Your GF can learn the basics by working with your kids and watching you, so she'll have a head start on dealing with her own. Between you already knowing the ropes and her getting a glimpse of the future, a second round of children often goes much more smoothly than the first.

totally true...things run incredibly smooth with our younger two because its our "do-over" family

shitty but there it is...I already knew where I fucked up with the first two...and how not to be a selfish ass with the younger two
also (not that this would be a prob for woot) but with my first two I didn't have enough money to do a lot of things right/the way things should go
second go around I know what things cost and whats worth paying for and whats not

didn't stop me from buying that fucking stroller I've used three times tho...god dammit

 

[-SD-]

Jesus christ bro i cant believe youre still wasting time with this bish. Im sure you know there are a million chicks without her baggage to choose from. Got a P.I. on your ass and calls to your employer? Fuck that noise rob.
Seems like youre taking it Up the ass just to be with this bish, and for what?
The temporary pain of dumping her is well worth the sanity and freedom from a life shackled with shit you dont want or have to deal with.

 

[cindylou]

didn't stop me from buying that fucking stroller I've used three times tho...god dammit

lol that's about as many times as I used mine, too.

 

[binö]

Jesus christ bro i cant believe youre still wasting time with this bish. Im sure you know there are a million chicks without her baggage to choose from. Got a P.I. on your ass and calls to your employer? Fuck that noise rob.
Seems like youre taking it Up the ass just to be with this bish, and for what?
The temporary pain of dumping her is well worth the sanity and freedom from a life shackled with shit you dont want or have to deal with.

i like this girl, alot...i see myself with her.
this BS i'm referring to runs deeper than i care to talk about, but it is mostly over with, he got stiffly pwned in court and the harrassment i've recieved has come to a standstill.
the bro is hostile and physically sick, his thrashing around is the throes of a dying man, literally the dude is not long for the world...one less narcissitic angry abusing ex-cop the world has to deal with

 

[jiggagold]

be a man and dump her

 

[binö]

be a man and dump her

i'm going have her join EF then break the news to her on c&c
act like a chic so i can look like i have backup plans

 

[shirlene29]

asshat

 

[DonGargles]

He's dying? Of what?

 

[EarthRider]

bro you really don't know me, i've done a pretty good job with my first young kid experience...it just can be frustrating.
the kid is agreeable and mostly easy to work with, i was just pissy and frustrated last night.
his dad has made my life extremely difficult lately (hired PI trailing me, a few calls to my employer allegeing illegal activity, and other things i can't do a thing about) so i am buckling a bit under the weight of all this shit.
i'm a good guy though, and a pretty goood step wtf ever considering what i am working with.

i am sorry bro and I don't envy you at all. I just know how hard it is to raise my own kids, and i can't imagine someone elses. I never said i could do it.

 

[lartinos]

Seems like this Ex is a big fucking problem. How is she helping you deal with that situation? How doe she support you when it comes to this?