ER, and if I could have had is that way, I would have. I thought the man I was with for 11 yrs was going to be the only man I was ever going to be with, but we can't control what happens many times.
If someone would have asked me in my 20's if now at 45, I would have been in 4 long term relationships with lots of dating in between, I would have never believed it.
It is what it is, but yes, you are in a good place to have had only one woman and be happy. It's truly a blessing