kroddy_man
New member
In a nutshell:
My wife and I are separated and we have filed for a divorce. We have a month before its final. We don't have any kids and it was a mutual decision.
It is pretty amicable, we have had problems in the past-mostly financial stress, communication issues.
We have remained friendly and see each other frequently. We both have started seeing other people too.
The problem is there is still ALOT of love between us and we are really having a hard go of it. Lots of regrets about the split, but still frustrations and resentment over our relationship. We do not want to lose contact with each other but I think we are hurting each other by seeing each other.
Has anyone ever dealt with this kind of thing before? I am really confused and feel ill over the situation. We know there is no way we could go back to what we had before, but I suspect we are both wondering if we should just call off the divorce and go to counselling.
Just looking for some words of wisdom to give me something to cling to!!
-km
My wife and I are separated and we have filed for a divorce. We have a month before its final. We don't have any kids and it was a mutual decision.
It is pretty amicable, we have had problems in the past-mostly financial stress, communication issues.
We have remained friendly and see each other frequently. We both have started seeing other people too.
The problem is there is still ALOT of love between us and we are really having a hard go of it. Lots of regrets about the split, but still frustrations and resentment over our relationship. We do not want to lose contact with each other but I think we are hurting each other by seeing each other.
Has anyone ever dealt with this kind of thing before? I am really confused and feel ill over the situation. We know there is no way we could go back to what we had before, but I suspect we are both wondering if we should just call off the divorce and go to counselling.
Just looking for some words of wisdom to give me something to cling to!!
-km