In my defense, it wasn't my choice to live here, it was 1st husband -- I am getting tired of paying for the rest of my life for the stupid decisions I made as a young woman, though.
Will move eventually (have to, actually, can't afford to live here if he can't work anymore). Gotta wait for hubby to decide to take retirement at this stage of the game. 50 and 60 year old people can't just pick up and start over at the drop of a hat, not unless they have a helluva lot of financial liquidity, which we don't.