Your commitment requirements?

[PolishHammer1977]

Frackie

There's no perfect person, you just have to find someone you like spending time with, then you can deal with their bad qualities b/c their good qualities make you happy...

And remember for every one thing that annoys you about a person. There are two things about YOU that annoys them. It's a two way street.

 

[trimtan1]

grlpwrd,
I am in no way insinuating this, but does the possibility of infidelity ever cross your mind? Seeing as he is very far away frequently? I was married, and tried my best to allow her to take time away on her own, and it spelled disaster for me. I know it's all about trust, but how DO YOU REALLY EVER KNOW for sure?

Polish Hammer,
Yes, it's the ability to live with and get along with someone and endure each other's quirks and habits. That's the most difficult task of all.

 

[grlpwrd]

grlpwrd,
I am in no way insinuating this, but does the possibility of infidelity ever cross your mind? Seeing as he is very far away frequently? I was married, and tried my best to allow her to take time away on her own, and it spelled disaster for me. I know it's all about trust, but how DO YOU REALLY EVER KNOW for sure?

Polish Hammer,
Yes, it's the ability to live with and get along with someone and endure each other's quirks and habits. That's the most difficult task of all.

I have known my hubby for over 16 years and he has always been faithful to me and I don't have reason to question him. He questions me, though. He believes that I would more likely cheat because my dad did repeatedly and my parents are still together. My hubby is one of a kind and I know he'd never do that to me...and I would never do that to him. Yeah, I know...we're weird.

 

[PolishHammer1977]

Yeah, I know...we're weird.

You guys are one of a kind. If there were more people like you we wouldn't have such a bad % of divorce in the United States. Kudos to you.