Your commitment requirements?

[trimtan1]

Being part of the iron brotherhood/sisterhood, it is easy to understand the commitment to bettering our bodies. But, what does it take for you to commit to a full-time relationship?

Being divorced for 5 years now, I would have to say:

1. Above average looks
2. Trustworthy
3. Hot sex

And in the last 5 years, I've met several girls that had 2 out of 3 of those.

What are your requirements for being in or continuing to be in a relationship?

 

[velvett]

1 - Trustworthy/ Loyal/ Reliable

2 - Attractive to me....humina humina

3 - Similiar beliefs and lifestyle (Is tuning into 23 hours of X-files really a bad thing to do on Thanksgiving??)

(do I have to mention nookie and a talented tongue? seems to cheapen the whole thought pattern I've got going here....)

4 - Love me for my quirks as I for them

 

[biteme]

Well hell, I think that I"m pretty easy, but it's hard for us physical fitness fanatics to find anyone. How many people train and diet the way we do? I don't need a woman to clean, cook, for me. I hardly ask for anything, yet I can't find one. Why? It's simple. I'm not well off financially and this is the #l concern for a woman. I can take care of myself but not them. They would have to come into the relationship being able to take care of themselves financially. Women don't think like that. They want a man who can support them because they either can't support themselves or are afraid that they will fail and want someone to fall back on. I will not change to get a woman. I do what I do for now because it's the best thing. Many a woman has immediately lost interest in me when they find out what I do to make money. I work as a security guard. They are so image conscious. Yet if they took the time to get to know me, they would find out that I'm educated and pretty smart. I consider it their loss.

 

[velvett]

Bite Me,

You don't have to change, you just need to find a female that can take care of herself financial and does so because she doesn't want anyone to tell her that *she's being taken care of* - if you know what I mean.

Men and women, they can't all be put into two groups. We are different regardless of the possibly of familiar sex.


It's the search or stumbling upon that's not so easy.

 

[biteme]

Bite Me,

You don't have to change, you just need to find a female that can take care of herself financial and does so because she doesn't want anyone to tell her that *she's being taken care of* - if you know what I mean.

Men and women, they can't all be put into two groups. We are different regardless of the possibly of familiar sex.


It's the search or stumbling upon that's not so easy.

Amen, Velvett. Not all women are like that I'm sure. But I live in Dallas, the status conscious capital of the U.S. I hate it here, but I'm stuck, so I'll just continue to hope that I'll get lucky some day.

 

[Code]

1.) Compatibility
2.) Mothering capability
3.) Honesty
4.) Integrity
5.) Looks

 

[biteme]

Last night I met this girl at a club. She was all over me the whole night. My friend had introduced us and he said that she liked me. After a whole night of hanging out and talking, she finally gets around to asking me what I am? As if your job defines who you are. When I tell her, she suddenly loses interest, I could tell. I'm just sorry that I wasted my time on such a shallow person. But if I do find a good woman, I know they will like me for me and not what I can do for them financially. I'll never have to wonder if that's the reason they got with me.

 

[velvett]

After a whole night of hanging out and talking, she finally gets around to asking me what I am? As if your job defines who you are. When I tell her, she suddenly loses interest, I could tell.

Well, you never know why people act the way they do.

In restrospect, I remember being pressured by friends and family to date a guy with a certain type of job. We'll call him soft girlie hands, while I fell for a hard, calloused and dirty after work hands.

All I can say is try if possible to just give her a chance (any girl) to give you a chance.




You may just be pleasantly surprised.

 

[biteme]

Well, you never know why people act the way they do.

In restrospect, I remember being pressured by friends and family to date a guy with a certain type of job. We'll call him soft girlie hands, while I fell for a hard, calloused and dirty after work hands.

All I can say is try if possible to just give her a chance (any girl) to give you a chance.




You may just be pleasantly surprised.

thank you

 

[big4life]

1 - Trustworthy/ Loyal/ Reliable

2 - Attractive to me....humina humina

3 - Similiar beliefs and lifestyle (Is tuning into 23 hours of X-files really a bad thing to do on Thanksgiving??)

(do I have to mention nookie and a talented tongue? seems to cheapen the whole thought pattern I've got going here....)

4 - Love me for my quirks as I for them

I usually find women that have some of those characteristics, but they fall short in the rest, as I'm sure I do to them.