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trimtan1

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Being part of the iron brotherhood/sisterhood, it is easy to understand the commitment to bettering our bodies. But, what does it take for you to commit to a full-time relationship?

Being divorced for 5 years now, I would have to say:

1. Above average looks
2. Trustworthy
3. Hot sex

And in the last 5 years, I've met several girls that had 2 out of 3 of those.

What are your requirements for being in or continuing to be in a relationship?
 
1 - Trustworthy/ Loyal/ Reliable

2 - Attractive to me....humina humina

3 - Similiar beliefs and lifestyle (Is tuning into 23 hours of X-files really a bad thing to do on Thanksgiving??)

(do I have to mention nookie and a talented tongue? seems to cheapen the whole thought pattern I've got going here....)

4 - Love me for my quirks as I for them
 
Well hell, I think that I"m pretty easy, but it's hard for us physical fitness fanatics to find anyone. How many people train and diet the way we do? I don't need a woman to clean, cook, for me. I hardly ask for anything, yet I can't find one. Why? It's simple. I'm not well off financially and this is the #l concern for a woman. I can take care of myself but not them. They would have to come into the relationship being able to take care of themselves financially. Women don't think like that. They want a man who can support them because they either can't support themselves or are afraid that they will fail and want someone to fall back on. I will not change to get a woman. I do what I do for now because it's the best thing. Many a woman has immediately lost interest in me when they find out what I do to make money. I work as a security guard. They are so image conscious. Yet if they took the time to get to know me, they would find out that I'm educated and pretty smart. I consider it their loss.
 
Bite Me,

You don't have to change, you just need to find a female that can take care of herself financial and does so because she doesn't want anyone to tell her that *she's being taken care of* - if you know what I mean.

Men and women, they can't all be put into two groups. We are different regardless of the possibly of familiar sex.


It's the search or stumbling upon that's not so easy.

:(
 
velvett said:
Bite Me,

You don't have to change, you just need to find a female that can take care of herself financial and does so because she doesn't want anyone to tell her that *she's being taken care of* - if you know what I mean.

Men and women, they can't all be put into two groups. We are different regardless of the possibly of familiar sex.


It's the search or stumbling upon that's not so easy.

:(
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Amen, Velvett. Not all women are like that I'm sure. But I live in Dallas, the status conscious capital of the U.S. I hate it here, but I'm stuck, so I'll just continue to hope that I'll get lucky some day.
 
1.) Compatibility
2.) Mothering capability
3.) Honesty
4.) Integrity
5.) Looks
 
Last night I met this girl at a club. She was all over me the whole night. My friend had introduced us and he said that she liked me. After a whole night of hanging out and talking, she finally gets around to asking me what I am? As if your job defines who you are. When I tell her, she suddenly loses interest, I could tell. I'm just sorry that I wasted my time on such a shallow person. But if I do find a good woman, I know they will like me for me and not what I can do for them financially. I'll never have to wonder if that's the reason they got with me.
 
biteme said:
After a whole night of hanging out and talking, she finally gets around to asking me what I am? As if your job defines who you are. When I tell her, she suddenly loses interest, I could tell.
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Well, you never know why people act the way they do.

In restrospect, I remember being pressured by friends and family to date a guy with a certain type of job. We'll call him soft girlie hands, while I fell for a hard, calloused and dirty after work hands.

All I can say is try if possible to just give her a chance (any girl) to give you a chance.

:D


You may just be pleasantly surprised.
 
velvett said:



Well, you never know why people act the way they do.

In restrospect, I remember being pressured by friends and family to date a guy with a certain type of job. We'll call him soft girlie hands, while I fell for a hard, calloused and dirty after work hands.

All I can say is try if possible to just give her a chance (any girl) to give you a chance.

:D


You may just be pleasantly surprised.
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thank you
 
velvett said:
1 - Trustworthy/ Loyal/ Reliable

2 - Attractive to me....humina humina

3 - Similiar beliefs and lifestyle (Is tuning into 23 hours of X-files really a bad thing to do on Thanksgiving??)

(do I have to mention nookie and a talented tongue? seems to cheapen the whole thought pattern I've got going here....)

4 - Love me for my quirks as I for them
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I usually find women that have some of those characteristics, but they fall short in the rest, as I'm sure I do to them.:(
 
1 - Total abandonment in the sense of showing me the good with the bad...I want it all or nothing.
2 - Intelligence
3 - Artistic in some form or fashion
4 - Independence
5 - ...and I do NOT want to be needed....I need to be WANTED
 
Velvett.

With that being said.

1. Intelligence, Rational thinker.
2. Enjoys my humor, and I enjoy theirs
3. Someone who I can always surprise, and they can surprise me.
4. Minor baggage.
5. at least a minimal interest in wrestling
6. Someone that will belch around me
7. Someone who won't try to change me, make me "socially acceptable" -- I'm not a slob, but not Mr. Ettiquite either.

There are more things... but those are a few.

C-ditty
 
5) Should be able to fix gourmet food
4) Scrub and bath me on command
3) Rub my feet and lick the insides of my toes
2) Bring the money home
1) *Too explicit to be described here. For inquiring minds, please PM me if needed*
 
Well seeing as I'm drunk already, I'd say my answer to this question is:

You better be able to fuck like crazy, I want sex morning, noon and night. Plain and simple!! Even though I'm a good cook, I want someone that can also cook a good meal on occasion, and give me a hummer in between courses...oh, I love Jack Daniels too!!!
 
Hey Trimtan,

You forgot THE most important one....

If you want the relationship to last...

COMMON INTERESTS

better have it, cause no matter how hot the sex is, no matter how good she looks, you will get tired of it, and so will she if you do not like to do things together...

I'm speaking from experience...
 
Cornholio said:

5 - ...and I do NOT want to be needed....I need to be WANTED
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that sounds very nice and something that i would need, too.
i can't say for sure what all the requirements would be, as i've yet to be committed in anyform thus far. physical and mental attraction, intelligence, and sincerity would all most likely have to be there though.


j2da2
 
Biteme,
Don't trip on your occupation brother. It's not worth it. I make great money, but shell out over a grand/month for child support. And I do it GLADLY, because I love my kids.
Being broke is no crime.

Velvett,
You sound like a sweetheart. :)

Cornholio,
Good point, showing the good with the bad. Too many people try to "coddle" the other in an effort to make things work, when in reality.......they should express their dislikes.......the shit will hit the fan soon enough, and it will be over.

Citruscide,
Minor baggage. Another good point. I know a lady right now that is very good looking and actually pretty hot for me, but she's got three young kids. And I just don't have it in me to take care of my three, and also be a good role model for them. I just don't care that much.

Bullet,
Excellent post. And you're correct. You must have things in common to survive any distance. I guess I just look at it in a way that I really don't believe I'll make it more than a couple years with anyone. I'm too much of an asshole, and like things my way.

Guess that's why I'm still single. LOL
 
Cornholio said:
- ...and I do NOT want to be needed....I need to be WANTED
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On the day we got married my husband gave me a wall placque that said, "I don't want you because I need you, I need you because I want you." :heart:

My requirement is that we treat eachother like we want to be treated by the other. Love, friendship, respect, humor, same values, and hot sex seems too work for us!
 
MrsPuddlesFL said:


On the day we got married my husband gave me a wall placque that said, "I don't want you because I need you, I need you because I want you." :heart:
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On the eventuality that I ever get married... I will present my wife to be with a prenuptual agreement, legally binding in all 50 states... titled "To my loving future wife to be... sign this shit so I don't have to kill you later.... Love, Citruscide"

C-ditty
 
i would hate the idea of having to use a prenuptual agreement. but it seems that these days it would be necessary.

do prenuptual agreements only account for properties only accumulated before marriage?


j2da2
 
He has to be willing to give as much as he expects from me. He has to be a friend as well as a lover. Someone compassionate and caring. Trustworthy.....I won't put up with lies. Someone I can rely on. Someone that will put up with me being a bitch, but will call me on it. I guess it's hard to really pinpoint everything.
 
Velvett along with pink are the most solid women on the board.. ...only two women I know of that if i was dating would not automatically assume they woudl be cheaters.


I think running a relationship like a nazi-ish gestappo is a good method of doing thigns
 
i also forgot to mention that commitment is also a mutual concept. this is one of the reasons it will only happen when it happens.


j2da2
 
I've been married to the same guy for 11 years and what keeps us together is that we don't keep each other on a leash and don't treat each other as a ball and chain. I want him to be happy...so I don't hold him back when it comes to his agenda, like moving thousands of miles away to work at a job he loves (he's a contract engineer and has worked in Arkansas, Georgia, and Florida for months at a time without me) or the way he buys a new car for himself and doesn't tell me until he drives up in it. Hmmm..I guess it's all about being married, but living single. ;)

It works both ways, though... :)
 
(1) Physical appearance
(2) Articulation
(3) Mental Toughness
(4) Loyalty
(5) Confidence
I never cared if my woman was into fitness. I care if she is healthy and happy with herself. I will always take a woman who is a few extra pounds over than a skinny rail.
 
:bigkiss: Frackie

There's no perfect person, you just have to find someone you like spending time with, then you can deal with their bad qualities b/c their good qualities make you happy...
 
PinK233 said:
:bigkiss: Frackie

There's no perfect person, you just have to find someone you like spending time with, then you can deal with their bad qualities b/c their good qualities make you happy...
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And remember for every one thing that annoys you about a person. There are two things about YOU that annoys them. It's a two way street.
 
grlpwrd,
I am in no way insinuating this, but does the possibility of infidelity ever cross your mind? Seeing as he is very far away frequently? I was married, and tried my best to allow her to take time away on her own, and it spelled disaster for me. I know it's all about trust, but how DO YOU REALLY EVER KNOW for sure?

Polish Hammer,
Yes, it's the ability to live with and get along with someone and endure each other's quirks and habits. That's the most difficult task of all.
 
trimtan1 said:
grlpwrd,
I am in no way insinuating this, but does the possibility of infidelity ever cross your mind? Seeing as he is very far away frequently? I was married, and tried my best to allow her to take time away on her own, and it spelled disaster for me. I know it's all about trust, but how DO YOU REALLY EVER KNOW for sure?

Polish Hammer,
Yes, it's the ability to live with and get along with someone and endure each other's quirks and habits. That's the most difficult task of all.
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I have known my hubby for over 16 years and he has always been faithful to me and I don't have reason to question him. He questions me, though. He believes that I would more likely cheat because my dad did repeatedly and my parents are still together. My hubby is one of a kind and I know he'd never do that to me...and I would never do that to him. :angel: Yeah, I know...we're weird. :D
 
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