You guys have been great

[just...v]

Eh...screw men. All a girl needs is a reliable power tool and a big Teddy bear to cuddle with after.

 

[cindylou]

these elationships are fuggin...no joke. How I could even deveop feelings for someone with words on a screen and the sound of a voice does not make sense considering I'm not pathetic and I can get a real date with a real person in real life...and it still seems that these would tend to get more intense than a real relationship and almost move more quickly than a RL one would....and end just like that..over.

I'll never love that way again...terrifying.

 

[cindylou]

Eh...screw men. All a girl needs is a reliable power tool and a big Teddy bear to cuddle with after.

lol...I have so much to say about not needing men...but I don't have the energy to type it out.. lolll

 

[the.gladiator1987]

I'll never love that way again...terrifying.

damnit

ur the only christian girl on this site!

 

[uamaverick]

And you're the epitome of a good Christian man on this site, with your multiple threads about fornication? LOL kid.

 

[-SD-]

The problem with e-lationships is the imagination fills in the void of whats missing if it would have been a real life relationship. Most of the time the mind will create unreasonable fantasy stuff to fill in the gaps so when the little e-lationship goes south its a bigger emotional hit than it should have been.

 

[billfred]

these elationships are fuggin...no joke. How I could even deveop feelings for someone with words on a screen and the sound of a voice does not make sense considering I'm not pathetic and I can get a real date with a real person in real life...and it still seems that these would tend to get more intense than a real relationship and almost move more quickly than a RL one would....and end just like that..over.

I'll never love that way again...terrifying.

Must be like reading a book is better than the movie. I guess our imagination is always better than the real thing.

 

[nefertiti]

I know I'm gonna get railed on by a few fellas here for this, but once the door is open again I highly recommend dating someone with similar faith background to you. My longest relationships were with two guys who were athiests and it never bothered me at the time (well, it didn't bother me MUCH), but it also made it a lot easier for me to not live a godly life. Dating someone who grew up in a VERY faith centered home, being with someone who encouraged me to rely on God first, him second, showed me exactly how much I need that in a partner.

 

[billfred]

I know I'm gonna get railed on by a few fellas .

In

 

[cindylou]

The problem with e-lationships is the imagination fills in the void of whats missing if it would have been a real life relationship. Most of the time the mind will create unreasonable fantasy stuff to fill in the gaps so when the little e-lationship goes south its a bigger emotional hit than it should have been.

I know..I was aware of that..and brought that exact point up with javaguru...I was nervous about our first meet up because I know how the mind works and it has no problem filling in the missing information with anything it wants....I know how chemistry works as well and I know how fickle it is....I was thinking all the right things and not overlooking the red flags all while java sweet talked me in blazing right past any red flags promising it would be okay that I had nothing to worry about. "I'll never break up with you, you'll break up with me first" etc etc