yet another dating question. WHAT WOULD YOU DO

[WODIN]

The heart wants, what the heart wants. So does the penis, the rectum, the duodenum, the large intestine, the limbic system and a guy named moirie.

 

[The Shadow]

I would begin a relationship with the other one and try to balance both (of course it's hard to do, but figure it out - girls are not smart). keep it up until you figure outif the other girl is the real thing it that initial spark was just the danger/mystique thing going on.

So......do it on the DL??

 

[CFZB]

The heart wants, what the heart wants. So does the penis, the rectum, the duodenum, the large intestine, the limbic system and a guy named moirie.

lol...wise words man

 

[concordsize]

if you realy like the girl you were with and or were inlove with her the new one would not even be brought up today. Case closed!

ps whats a good gym in Jacksonville to attend going there soon??

E

 

[XBiker]

I think the whole concept of "the one" only stands to be perceived as real when the relationship continues to be healthy and positive.

When the relationship starts to sour and dies "the one" becomes "that F-ing bastard" and "money grubing whore".

It's all about perception.

That's a real negative way to look at things...

Bitter are we?

 

[pitbullstl]

I think the whole concept of "the one" only stands to be perceived as real when the relationship continues to be healthy and positive.

When the relationship starts to sour and dies "the one" becomes "that F-ing bastard" and "money grubing whore".

It's all about perception.

Such a pessimist. I guess you would have to believe that "the one" is conceptual, and not spiritual. I happen to believe in the latter.

The whole premise of relationships is out of whack......everyone takes their significant other for granted. Work people......you get what you give in this life. Maybe my perception is such, because I have an innate ability to judge character, thus rendering my relationship with my wife so successful. Either way, I'm happy, I hope you are too.

 

[Razorguns]

Many want to have this notion of an existence of "the one". Mainly to give them somehting to dream about and fantasize.

What they don't realize is -- if one throws in mathematical statistics into play -- one would have to date MILLIONS of men/women to have even a REMOTE and POSSIBLE chance of finding "the one".

Finding "the one" out of 2.5 billion single people on the planet is almost an entirely implausible scenario. You have a better chance of winning the lottery next week.

One should instead believe in finding "someone who's at least 5 degrees close to..the one".

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

If you feel that *connection*, you would be a fool to let it go unattended. I was involved with somone when I first met my wife, the immediate attraction was almost too overwhelming....the night I met her we almost didn't connect.....but then she opened her mouth.........I haven't looked back since.

I would have to agree with this.

 

[Seashell]

I think if you are thinking these thoughts or having these feelings about the second woman, then the first one, is definately not the one for you. To me, nothing can compete with that *connection*.. so I say break up with the first one.

I wouldn't suggest trying to see both of them at the same time.. if this new one really has the potential to be something spectacular, do you really want to start it off based on lies and deceit?

 

[DIVISION]

Do you start seeing them surreptitiously? Do you end the other relationship? Or do you ignore this new person, even at the risk of missing something which could be really wonderful?

Go with the female who you see a future with, Matthew.

Don't hedge your relationship, stay true to what you think is right.

Remember, you can't go back in time.......once things are done, they are done. No going back, esp when it comes to women and hurt feelings.


DIV