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would you save your marraige?

would you stop disrespecting your wife

  • no

    Votes: 16 55.2%
  • yes

    Votes: 13 44.8%

  • Total voters
    29
"Coolidge Effect"


One day President and Mrs. Coolidge were visiting a government farm. Soon after their arrival they were taken off on separate tours. When Mrs. Coolidge passed the chicken pens she paused to ask the man in charge if the rooster copulates more than once each day. "Dozens of times" was the reply. "Please tell that to the President," Mrs. Coolidge requested. When the President passed the pens and was told about the rooster, he asked "Same hen everytime?" "Oh no, Mr. President, a different one each time." The President nodded slowly, then said "Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge."*
 
angel_girl said:
if she asked you to stop disrespecting her by
a) stop looking at porn while she is at work to give you her whole paycheck meanwhile busting her ass
b) stop jerking off while she is at work or sleeping
c)stop drinking cause when toxins enter your body you are a cmplete asshole
d) stop posting sexual remarks about other girls cause it is disrespectful expecially when she is on the same site
i agree with C, but you REALLY need to ease the fuck up.

a,b, and D are not big deals.

first off, porn is porn...as long as hes still willing to please u when you want it, then the porn should not be a factor at all. if for some reason, said porn and masturbation makes him unable to please you, then yeah- he needs to get the fuck off it.

ad for D- as long as he is still treating you well, and giving u attention and not saying offensive things to you- ease the fuck up.

your reasons are not valid reasons to end a marriage (except for C- depending on sevarity)
 
angel_girl said:
thats what i am saying but i am crazy drunk and need meds...lol
lol- the way ur acting reminds me of myself the first time i got drunk...


oh man did i regret that time
 
A technical definition of the Coolidge Effect: "A sexual and behavioral response pattern in which the introduction of a new sex partner to a male or female who has become sexually unresponsive restores that animal's interest in mating more quickly than the continued presence of the first partner. . . . The Coolidge effect has been demonstrated by experiments with mice, rats, guinea pigs, dairy bulls, water buffaloes, sheep, swine, boars, and cats, and, in folklore, in human beings." (From Robert T. Francoeur, Timothy Perper, Norman A. Scherzer, George P. Sellmer, and Martha Cornog, A Descriptive Dictionary and Atlas of Sexology [New York: Greenwood Press, 1991], p. 130.) For more on the Coolidge Effect, see (1) Donald Symons, The Evolution of Human Sexuality (Oxford: Oxford University Press), 1979, pp. 208-213, and (2) David M. Buss, The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating (New York: Basic Books), 1994, p. 79-81.
 
Raina said:
These will be fun threads for them to read tomorrow.
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lol....iv gotten to this psot so far, and im laughing my ass off....these posts are hilarious....im laughing at like every other post

btw lookin good!
 
angel_girl said:
amen brother biteme..lol biteme sounds funny...i agree so much...but non spiritual people will see it in a different light....having insecurities has nothing to do with it drinking doesnt either...it is spiritual...if it quacks like a duck its a damn duck correct???? its biblical some of you dont get into the christianity or what ever religion it is where you read from the bible..once you realize the seed that god has planted into you ya'll will see...untill then just note i am not drunk trying to post shit i am seeing my views spiritually!!!! thank you!
lol....
 
And, now, something like the Coolidge Effect in female primates:

For most species in this intermediate category between strictly cyclical receptivity [in females] and receptivity which is situation-dependent, exact endocrinological and social circumstances surrounding the transition to situation-dependent receptivity are unknown. At least one participating factor has been identified, however: the appearance of unfamiliar males. A captive chimpanzee who has been failing to cycle may develop large sexual swellings overnight if she is moved near to a male. Wild langur females will actively solicit invading males who have just entered the troop, presenting to these new males, shuddering their heads, and copulating with the males day after day--even if the females are already pregnant. Among patas monkeys in an experimental colony, the incidence of pseudo-estrus among pregnant females similarly increased when a new male was introduced. [Sarah Blaffer Hrdy, The Woman That Never Evolved (Cambridge, Mass.: Harvard University Press, 1981), p. 146.]
 
"Jehovanists encourage marriage in part because they know that restricting sex to a single partner will reduce its overall frequency. Marriage translates a maximum of opportunity into a minimum of desire by continually allowing the release of sexual tension before an ample amount of erotic passion can accumulate. . . . Thus marriage seems almost intentionally designed to make sex boring" (Murray Davis, Smut: Erotic Reality/Obscene Ideology, University of Chicago Press, 1983, p. 119).
 
"Marriages should be based not on trust, but on tension. . . . Marriage today has become far too cozy and trusting. If husbands and wives were more anxious about retaining each other's faithfulness, were far more focused on the strangers that are attracted to their spouses, and confessed to each other the petty attractions they harbor toward strangers, they would become far more desirable to each other. . . . Husbands and wives must recapture erotic desire in their minds by bringing the forbidden into marriage, by creating erotic obstacles that heighten attraction, by noticing their spouses' irresistibility to members of the opposite sex, and by bringng voyeurism back into a long-term relationship. In short, married couples must learn how to sin together. . . . The 'possibility of adultery' between partners must exist in order for couples to remain attracted to each other. . . . The objective is to ignite that inferno within your marriage by focusing on the sexual insatiability of your spouse and how at any moment he or she could become someone else's illicit lover. . . . I am making a case for rising above questions of infidelity and unfaithfulness in marriage by learning to become unfaithful with one's own spouse, so that all the seductive qualities of adultery can be brought into marriage. . . . Advocating, in cases of extreme urgency, that wives sit in a bar so that their husbands can see the men who want to pick them up is perhaps not the advice that people expected to garner from the author of Kosher Sex. I can see even my non-Jewish readers turning the pages and thinking, 'Has Shmuley gone meshugah?' . . . Yes, I offer that and other advice unapologetically." (From Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, Kosher Adultery, excerpt found on the web site Jewsweek.) [Rabbi Boteach's advice puts a cute spin on Kierkegaard's "[one's spouse] is first and foremost the neighbour" and turns upside down Augustine's warning that a husband must not make his wife into a whore.]
 
biteme said:
Jesus said, "If you even look at another woman with lust, you have committed adultery in your heart." Probably in Matthew somewhere. WHen you masturbate, you are certainly lusting. Lusting is what leads to masturbation.
1. SCRIPTURE

I would like to start my explorations this evening by quoting some well-known passages from the New Testament. First, St. Paul on women and the veil, from 1 Corinthians 11:

4 Any man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head, 5 but any woman who prays or prophesies with her head unveiled dishonors her head. . . . 13 Judge for yourselves: is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head uncovered? 14 Does not nature itself teach you that for a man to wear long hair is degrading to him, 15 but if a woman has long hair, it is her pride? For her hair is given to her for a covering.

Second, the notorious passage from the Sermon on the Mount, Matthew 5:27-29:

27 You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away.It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.

2. THE RATIONALE

(A) These two passages are not unrelated: the first, Corinthians, advises that women be veiled, covered, with the result that they cannot be seen, while the second, Matthew, advises that men in effect wear blindfolds, so that they cannot see. What is the point? One point seems to be that there is a relationship between the male gaze, a manifestation of male eros, and Christian love or agape: in particular, eros [or sexual passion] needs to be blocked in order to make room for agape [or selfless benevolence]. This is indeed the thesis argued by the New Testament scholar Francis Watson in his fine book on Pauline sexual ethics. Because Watson serves as my foil this evening, allow me to quote two passages from his Agape, Eros, and Gender:

First, "For the sake of agape, eros must be subjected to severe restrictions, so as to eliminate not just the erotic act but even the desire for it. Jesus' saying makes . . . [this] point: 'I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman to desire her . . . has already committed adultery with her in his heart . . .' . [According to Watson] We do not 'love the Lord our God with all our heart . . .' when that 'heart' is filled with the fantasy of sexual intercourse with the object of the erotic gaze. We do not 'love our neighbour as ourselves' when we make her (or him) the object of that fantasy. The prohibition of the desire and the fantasy is intended to create specific space for agape" (p. 156).

Second, "[T]he [Pauline] veil signifies the necessary distinction between eros and agape, excluding the one so as to preserve the space of the other" [p. 2]. "The veil is a symbol directed at man. In its blankness it admonishes him to hear the word of the Lord in the medium of a woman's voice and to make her response to this word his own. In order that he may listen and not look, it imposes on him the humiliation of a blindfold. For the sake of the agape that is the condition of true speaking and hearing within the body of Christ, eros -- or woman as construed by the erotic male gaze -- must be veiled" (p. 41).

As I already suggested, whereas Paul calls for the veiling of women so they cannot be seen by men, Matthew's Jesus calls, instead, for the blinding (or blindfolding) of men, who with few exceptions look at women with desire in their hearts or are at least tempted to look at them that way. The community of Christians shall consist of men wearing blinders and women wearing veils; no one sees and no one is seen. But these people can, and should, speak and be heard, and their voices shall ring with the message of Christ. This blindfolding is to be done in the name of curtailing eros so that agape can blossom. Further, on some accounts this blindfolding is to take place also within marriage: the husband, for St. Augustine, should not even look upon his wife with lust. As Søren Kierkegaard insisted, one's husband or wife is first and foremost one's neighbor (Works of Love, p. 141).

more...
http://www.uno.edu/~asoble/pages/mystery.htm
 
Miss24k said:
You know what you sound like a damn fool... Bringing religion into this, taking the higher than thou attitude, you are online disrespecting your f*cking husband. And how exactly would he feel if he knew his wife was on a forum airing their personal business to strangers.

I know I would be pretty pissed and the last thing she would be worrying about is me watching porn. I'm not saying that the things he's doing are right, but you need to discuss them with him.


Forget the last part, I just realized your husband posts your relationship issues on here too.


The 2 of you need some professional help, seriously!!!!
 
1. I think airing your dirty laundry on a public message board is lame, lame, LAME.

2. If his masturbating bothers you BECAUSE IT'S AGAINST BIBLICAL PRINCIPLE, then maybe you should rethink GETTING DRUNK. There is nothing worse than a hypocrit. There are quite a few references, but here is just one from Deuteronomy 29:

19and it come to pass, when he heareth the words of this curse, that he bless himself in his heart, saying, `I shall have peace, though I walk in the imagination of mine heart'--to add drunkenness to thirst. 20The LORD will not spare him, but then the anger of the LORD and His jealousy shall smoke against that man, and all the curses that are written in this book shall lie upon him, and the LORD shall blot out his name from under heaven.
21And the LORD shall separate him unto evil out of all the tribes of Israel, according to all the curses of the covenant that are written in this Book of the Law,

2a) Along the same vein - shaming your husband and disrespecting him like this is also against biblical principle. PROVERBS 31 speaks directly to the virtuous woman and how she treats her family and household.

As far as masturbation in itself - my thoughts on your list is:
A) as long as it's not pay porn that is taking money away from the family I have no issue with it - in moderation. Excessive porn or my man looking at pedophilia, skat, or other gross shit we may have to discuss.

B) I think it is highly presumptuous of you to assume to tell a man what he can and cannot do with his own body. If he can still perform for you then I don't see the issue. If he prefers Rosy palm and her 5 sisters to having sex with his wife - then there is an issue.

C) Drunkeness is an issue to me. If it's to the point of addiction - he either agrees to get help or would be out of the house. Kids don't need to live around that. Oh, and that goes for either parent as far as I'm concerned. Speaking of, I do hope that you made sure he was going to stay sober tonight to take care of your kids.

D) This is disrespectful, but not a marriage breaker to me - and I probably wouldn't make a scene about it. If I was that bothered, I'd find my own board to post on so I didn't have to deal with it. If one of the women ever showed up at my door - then we'd have issues. If your hubby won't honor your request to not flirt online, then your marital problems are probably deeper than online flirting, quite honestly.
 
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This is an issue best dealt with inside the family circle not a private message board HOWEVER if anyone wants opinions on issues such as these then perhaps the questions should have been rephrased in such a way not to give away that you are having intimate issues. That way you would not cop any flack from others.

The man should respect his woman and the woman should respect her man! :heart: We all know that relationships are complex and love is a drug which makes one not think clearly. This time Angel_Girl has some valid questions!!!!


Dr. Phil anyone?
 
Waking up to shit like this and having to read it and realize that everyone knows that you were a drunk the night before is the reason why I dont drink, this reminds me of that, why Ill never feel that hangover and looking back at what I did b/c of alcohol the night before. Thanks for that, I need to be reminded why I hate alcohol so flipping much.
 
None of them would bother me but the drinking if it is excessive. Porn is porn...if you have a healthy self esteem it really shouldn't bother you to much since he will never see these women......as for flirting on here....it is all in fun...but there should be some boundries....for example....I don't talk about Hammy's stunning penis....casue Klue would beat me....
 
This just an example of being married to young and immature.When you eventually grow out of your insecurities your marriage or relationships will get alot better.
Not wanting your husband to masterbate is just crazy,masterbation for male and females is a healthy way to explore your sexuality.
I wouldn't want a girl who didn't know how to please herself.
 
Deterass said:
This just an example of being married to young and immature.When you eventually grow out of your insecurities your marriage or relationships will get alot better.

I hate to admit....but I have to agree on this one with you
 
angel_girl said:
if she asked you to stop disrespecting her by
a) stop looking at porn while she is at work to give you her whole paycheck meanwhile busting her ass
b) stop jerking off while she is at work or sleeping
c)stop drinking cause when toxins enter your body you are a cmplete asshole
d) stop posting sexual remarks about other girls cause it is disrespectful expecially when she is on the same site

You have unrealistic expectations.

What habits are you willing to sacrifice in exchange for satisfying these demands?
 
I'm thinking they got married because he got her prego and due to their undying devotion to that thing in the sky, they could not abort thus giving the reason why they are like they are. So once it's all said and done with the divorce, you will have ruined 3 lives instead of 1. Isn't religion grand!!
 
Delinquent said:
I'm thinking they got married because he got her prego and due to their undying devotion to that thing in the sky, they could not abort thus giving the reason why they are like they are. So once it's all said and done with the divorce, you will have ruined 3 lives instead of 1. Isn't religion grand!!
here is a guy who knows what he is talking about!!!!! lmao
first of all my first child was already born when i got married..i was with needto for 3 years before we got married....there is no divorce we were fucking around with each other last night and people took it seriously...
i didnt get married because of "religion".
 
lmao @ this shit..

Angel I said my part on the porn shit to you already... jealousy and insecurity will get you no where... don't even say its not cause you've already admitted on the IA board that it has something to do with it.

The drinking.. ya gotcha back on that.. but the man is not sleeping around on you!

Get some help, seriously. this board is not a place to air your problems... not if you want them to be fixed. both of you are in 'get back at each other' mode and looks to me like you are doing stuff to purposly hurt each other... next time you or he feel the need to do so you should email each other and work thru this like adults instead of highschool kids at lunchtime.

You have kids don't you? And want more? fix this problem first, mature some and then think about procreation...

this behavior is way too immature of both of you...
 
EnderJE said:
Damn, 4everhung, you've got the C effect down pat.
I'll only marry a bi girl next time
I almost pulled it off a couple of years ago but she lived in Los Angeles and I can't move my business.
 
4everhung said:
I'll only marry a bi girl next time
I almost pulled it off a couple of years ago but she lived in Los Angeles and I can't move my business.
well if you think about it
I want to move my business
 
mightymouse69 said:
any update on this issue.

Angel Girl claims this was all a joke and that she wasn't drunk, nor does she make these demands on her husband. :rolleyes: yah, riiight!

Oh, and she thinks I am mean. :)
 
Daisy_Girl said:
Angel Girl claims this was all a joke and that she wasn't drunk, nor does she make these demands on her husband. :rolleyes: yah, riiight!

Oh, and she thinks I am mean. :)
means that much to you.but yes she dos .
 
Daisy_Girl said:
Angel Girl claims this was all a joke and that she wasn't drunk, nor does she make these demands on her husband. :rolleyes: yah, riiight!

Oh, and she thinks I am mean. :)

You mean witch you ;)
 
angel_girl said:
if she asked you to stop disrespecting her by
a) stop looking at porn while she is at work to give you her whole paycheck meanwhile busting her ass
b) stop jerking off while she is at work or sleeping
c)stop drinking cause when toxins enter your body you are a cmplete asshole
d) stop posting sexual remarks about other girls cause it is disrespectful expecially when she is on the same site


if she asked ya....

A. porn is not always for jerking off... i love to watch porn just to laugh
case in point www.bigsausagepizza.com

B. jerking off = way to kill time (no doubt, bored so rub one out)

C. ya i can see that one..drinks can make someone an asshoe

d. no fucking clue whats that mean...dont like what ppl say on the net. THEN LEAVE.. NO ONE FORCES U to post
 
Please do not give these women any more ammunition to take away our porn and ration out our orgasms in an attempt to control us more than they already do.

Most husbands, I am sure, are sick and tired of "performing" and "increasing output" around the house and at work enough to make the wife happy for 5 minutes so she will reluctantly ration them out a monthly orgasm - and a no fun, fucking a dead body fuck at that.

With this logic of masturbation = sin, we can't have an orgasm unless it is in a dream or in marriage without sinning. For most guys, the surest way to end your sex life is to get married. It is just as well to not ever have an orgasm and to cut off our genitals and extinct the human race. We are the disease of this planet anyway.
 
Jimsbbc said:
Please do not give these women any more ammunition to take away our porn and ration out our orgasms in an attempt to control us more than they already do.

Most husbands, I am sure, are sick and tired of "performing" and "increasing output" around the house and at work enough to make the wife happy for 5 minutes so she will reluctantly ration them out a monthly orgasm - and a no fun, fucking a dead body fuck at that.

With this logic of masturbation = sin, we can't have an orgasm unless it is in a dream or in marriage without sinning. For most guys, the surest way to end your sex life is to get married. It is just as well to not ever have an orgasm and to cut off our genitals and extinct the human race. We are the disease of this planet anyway.


Damn bro. You sound like a "half empty" kinda guy...
 
I didnt read thru this entire thread but it does bring up an interesting point. Some women are truly threatened by their man looking at another woman naked and wanking their noodle. whatever.

Personally, when my man tells me he has jacked off, It turns me on. And Im secure enough to know that he enjoys sex with me more than masturbation. but masturbation is just natural. god i dont know what I would do if I couldnt do it.
 
There's nothing wrong with looking as long as he doesn't touch

but then yet if your not happy with your relationship

is simple

get out of it.


i wish you the best of luck :)
 
Any woman who seriously expects her husband not to masturbate does not have a grip on reality. Most American women will not want (or be able) to keep up with their husband's sex drive. It is the gift of testosterone that keeps on giving. Until our 1% per year terminal decline of testosterone levels after 18yrs of age significantly lowers our sex drive - we will be raging horndogs.

Since most Amercican women become lazy after the man signs his life away on the dotted line in a marriage contract, there is no reason for them to keep having sex. Women have the leverage of getting everything in a divorce including up to or more than half his monthly income in child support. After having kids, many women simply want a plutonic relationship - like having a roommate you happen to have kids with - where the man provides some companionship (no sex). More importantly the man becomes a paycheck, an enslaved financier, who provides the ability for the woman to play with the kids all day and sit on her ass and watch endless hours of tv.

Most men are not happy with the amount of sex they get after marriage. There are endless jokes about headaches before bed and trying to get sex out of their lazy wifes. Most American women do not feel the need to satisfy their husband's sexual needs because their laziness, feeling of entitlement, and selfishness takes priority. Sex becomes too much of a hassel if they had to do anything productive during the day.

The fact is the American woman is lazy and feels entitled to a life of unproductiveness. The man is expected to provide a level of income that supports a full staff to automate everything in the house so the woman has absolutely nothing to do besides watch Dr. Phil. That is the only way an American woman will have enough energy stores to engage in weekly sexual activity. Otherwise, if the man cannot provide this level of comfort, he gets bi-monthly sex (if lucky).

A good rule of thumb is for couples to have more sex per week than not. That means 4 out of 7 days, not this 5-6 days a month bullshit that is the average in America. If wives do not want their husbands to cheat, at least let them fulfill their sexual needs manually by themselves.

This means using porn. We are visual, and need fantasy to get off. We will never see these girls in real life, therefore they pose no threat. Unless you want us to start thinking about some girl at the gym while stroking it in the shower and eventually start fucking her instead - leave us alone about the porn.

We will not have our source of orgasms limited to only you so you can try to create a monopoly where our orgasms are rationed out in order to make us miserable.
 
just get divorced girl...men will be men.
 
Jimsbbc said:
Any woman who seriously expects her husband not to masturbate does not have a grip on reality. Most American women will not want (or be able) to keep up with their husband's sex drive. It is the gift of testosterone that keeps on giving. Until our 1% per year terminal decline of testosterone levels after 18yrs of age significantly lowers our sex drive - we will be raging horndogs.

Since most Amercican women become lazy after the man signs his life away on the dotted line in a marriage contract, there is no reason for them to keep having sex. Women have the leverage of getting everything in a divorce including up to or more than half his monthly income in child support. After having kids, many women simply want a plutonic relationship - like having a roommate you happen to have kids with - where the man provides some companionship (no sex). More importantly the man becomes a paycheck, an enslaved financier, who provides the ability for the woman to play with the kids all day and sit on her ass and watch endless hours of tv.

Most men are not happy with the amount of sex they get after marriage. There are endless jokes about headaches before bed and trying to get sex out of their lazy wifes. Most American women do not feel the need to satisfy their husband's sexual needs because their laziness, feeling of entitlement, and selfishness takes priority. Sex becomes too much of a hassel if they had to do anything productive during the day.

The fact is the American woman is lazy and feels entitled to a life of unproductiveness. The man is expected to provide a level of income that supports a full staff to automate everything in the house so the woman has absolutely nothing to do besides watch Dr. Phil. That is the only way an American woman will have enough energy stores to engage in weekly sexual activity. Otherwise, if the man cannot provide this level of comfort, he gets bi-monthly sex (if lucky).

A good rule of thumb is for couples to have more sex per week than not. That means 4 out of 7 days, not this 5-6 days a month bullshit that is the average in America. If wives do not want their husbands to cheat, at least let them fulfill their sexual needs manually by themselves.

This means using porn. We are visual, and need fantasy to get off. We will never see these girls in real life, therefore they pose no threat. Unless you want us to start thinking about some girl at the gym while stroking it in the shower and eventually start fucking her instead - leave us alone about the porn.

We will not have our source of orgasms limited to only you so you can try to create a monopoly where our orgasms are rationed out in order to make us miserable.


Damn. Sounds like you either had or have a suck-ass relationship. Sorry about that, man. I think in general I probably agree with you... although anecdotal evidence including myself and most of the married female friends I talk to must mean that we have the luckiest men in the world since they can't seem to keep up with OUR sex drive.
 
biteme said:
THis is really not the place for you 2 to get marital advice. You are Christians and most of the advice here is from non-Christians.
Are you saying only Christians know how to be married?
 
Jimsbbc said:
Any woman who seriously expects her husband not to masturbate does not have a grip on reality. Most American women will not want (or be able) to keep up with their husband's sex drive. It is the gift of testosterone that keeps on giving. Until our 1% per year terminal decline of testosterone levels after 18yrs of age significantly lowers our sex drive - we will be raging horndogs.

Since most Amercican women become lazy after the man signs his life away on the dotted line in a marriage contract, there is no reason for them to keep having sex. Women have the leverage of getting everything in a divorce including up to or more than half his monthly income in child support. After having kids, many women simply want a plutonic relationship - like having a roommate you happen to have kids with - where the man provides some companionship (no sex). More importantly the man becomes a paycheck, an enslaved financier, who provides the ability for the woman to play with the kids all day and sit on her ass and watch endless hours of tv.

Most men are not happy with the amount of sex they get after marriage. There are endless jokes about headaches before bed and trying to get sex out of their lazy wifes. Most American women do not feel the need to satisfy their husband's sexual needs because their laziness, feeling of entitlement, and selfishness takes priority. Sex becomes too much of a hassel if they had to do anything productive during the day.

The fact is the American woman is lazy and feels entitled to a life of unproductiveness. The man is expected to provide a level of income that supports a full staff to automate everything in the house so the woman has absolutely nothing to do besides watch Dr. Phil. That is the only way an American woman will have enough energy stores to engage in weekly sexual activity. Otherwise, if the man cannot provide this level of comfort, he gets bi-monthly sex (if lucky).

A good rule of thumb is for couples to have more sex per week than not. That means 4 out of 7 days, not this 5-6 days a month bullshit that is the average in America. If wives do not want their husbands to cheat, at least let them fulfill their sexual needs manually by themselves.

This means using porn. We are visual, and need fantasy to get off. We will never see these girls in real life, therefore they pose no threat. Unless you want us to start thinking about some girl at the gym while stroking it in the shower and eventually start fucking her instead - leave us alone about the porn.

We will not have our source of orgasms limited to only you so you can try to create a monopoly where our orgasms are rationed out in order to make us miserable.


damn straight.
 
strangebrew said:
You don't have it set to 100 posts per page?

Newbie.


werd.

always surprises me when people are all

whoa this thread is already 4 pages long! and I'm like, you know it's not the same for everyone right?
 
Angel said:
if she asked you to stop disrespecting her by
a) stop looking at porn while she is at work to give you her whole paycheck meanwhile busting her ass
b) stop jerking off while she is at work or sleeping
c)stop drinking cause when toxins enter your body you are a cmplete asshole
d) stop posting sexual remarks about other girls cause it is disrespectful expecially when she is on the same site

Jerking off isn't an issue IMO and porn isn't either, as long as he is taking care of you sexually as well. Offer to watch it with him and if you see something you don't object to, offer to do it *with* him (but only if you don't object).

"to give you her whole paycheck" is a massive problem. A guy who doesn't handle his finances has no excuse whatsoever.

Drinking... hmm... in excess it's a problem.

Sexual remarks about other girls are a problem if they bother you.

Now I hope you sober up and get this worked out :)
 
I used to watch porn with the wife
then one day we had an argument about it
the next day I came home and all my porn tapes were shredded and tape was everywhere
I was trying to save a couple
unscrewing the cassettes and splicing tape together
now we have dirty DVDs
easier to hide too
you can hide about 25 DVDs in a bootsock in the bottom of a drawer
 
if she asked you to stop disrespecting her by
a) stop looking at porn while she is at work to give you her whole paycheck meanwhile busting her ass
I would stop.
b) stop jerking off while she is at work or sleeping
I would stop
c)stop drinking cause when toxins enter your body you are a cmplete asshole
If I cared about her, I would stop.
d) stop posting sexual remarks about other girls cause it is disrespectful expecially when she is on the same site
That's just fucked up IMO... I would stop because my woman comes first above all else. And my woman will not have to work and if she does than what she makes is her spending money. But that's just me...
 
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