Yeah the title of this thread was a little much.......again my bad. I just take serious offense when someone is messing with my bros....Im not talking about people that i throw drinks back with at the bar, im talking about the guys that i have been friends with since i was little, the ones that i call "brothers". If a friend was actually in danger i might off someone, but other than that, the most i would do would be help hide the body. Well it turns out he already knew, but he still doesnt know what to do. He didnt want anyone to know that he was getting played and he was embarrassed so he kept it to himself. I just told him that makes her feel like she has more control over him, and that its all up to him, and that if he needed to talk to someone i would listen, but i told him i wouldnt bring it up again, cause he was seriously embarrassed. Well thanks for all the good input, i was a tad pissed last night. Guess it sorta felt like the girl was messing with my family.