Would you get involved with someone if you knew they were leaving?

[jennifer BFL chick]

Say you met someone and you really hit it off, but you knew they would be moving with in the next couple of months to a year.

Would you keep dating them, or choose not to get attached

 

[dballer]

No.... never.

 

[saint808]

depends... how special are they... distance can be overcome... but it's not easy.

 

[huntmaster]

yeah, I think so.--You never know what will happen down the road for sure. If you really hit it off, I dont see why not. You just never know what tomorrow holds.

 

[Taps]

Yep.

 

[polarpixie]

it depends on how much of a connection there was....or how little. If there was little connection, then you know it won't bother you that much if you hooked up a couple of times and then they moved far away. But if there was a deep connection, i would want to explore that regardless of how far away they were moving. But, since it's highly unlikely I would find a deep connection with anyone anyway, I don't think I have to worry about that problem!

Why do you ask Jen, are you thinking about getting involved with someone who's moving away?

 

[HumorMe]

Why do you ask Jen, are you thinking about getting involved with someone who's moving away?

Nosey.

j/k polar.

Answer to your question......I wouldn't but that's just me!

 

[studcj]

This has happened to me twice. One time I got involved (girl A), the other time (girl B)I dated he for a couple months then kind of gave myself some distance about 3 months before I left.

The time that I gave myself the distance before I left (girl B) was a heck of a lot easier. I wan't as attached, so when I moved here to AZ I started seeing other girls alot sooner than the last time.

when I did get involved(girl A), it totaly screwed with my head. I almost made some really bad decisions..

F***ed if ya do, F***ed if ya don't.

Even though it totally sucked leaving girl A, I wouldn't change it if I could go back.

I say go for it..or if you don't you might always have that "what if" lingering in the back of your mind


Did this post make any sense at all? sorry for rambling..

 

[OMEGA]

GO for it

"what you could have today will never be there tommorrow"

is what I wise French man told me

go for it dive in and take a risk.......you never know what might happen

evn if he leaves or you leave.....you will have at least spent soem wonderfull time with somone.......it may hurt when they leave.......but the good memories WILL remain

 

[polarpixie]

Nosey.

j/k polar.

Answer to your question......I wouldn't but that's just me!

hey, the girl does not have to answer if she doesn't want to.