Women trouble.... please help....

[EnderJE]

I know I should, but I still have some feelings for her...

Choose your response:

a) Nothing that a few shots of vodka can't fix.
b) Don't confused "feelings" with conveience <sp>.

 

[artrius]

If someone said (to sum it up) "Hey, I'm interested in someone else and will drop you like trash once it's more convenient for me to be with this other person, but I'll kind of be here for you until my real relationship works out", I can't see me agreeing to it.

true...

 

[artrius]

Choose your response:

a) Nothing that a few shots of vodka can't fix.
b) Don't confused "feelings" with conveience <sp>.

if I was a drinker, I'd definantly go with a) .

 

[fmorrow6]

Like all the others said, she sounds nuts. Very needy and insecure to have to string two guys along. And friendships (at least from my experience) don't really work when drama has ensued. DROP her quickly!!!!

 

[Raina]

Nobody wants to be the "I'll settle for you" backup plan.

 

[CrayonOfDoom2]

send her packing bro,she is nuts,you dont need this shit in your life,shes just a mindfuck

Thou sayeth !

 

[aandd]

Nobody wants to be the "I'll settle for you" backup plan.

Yeah, that one really hurts. And it stays with you.

Art - at best she is emotionally immature and has no real concept of what "i love you" means, and at worst she jsut a manipulative bitch playing both ends. Seriously, there are TOO MANY women in the world for you to buy into her drama and games and actually pretend to believe it's a healthy r'ship.

Tell her that her indecision makes YOUR decision easy and kick her to the curb. You deserve better.

 

[awittyusername]

is she 12?

lmao @ 12

I was going to ask him if she was and Iron Angel

 

[awittyusername]

Artarius,

1. There is always going to be some other punk who is going to say the "I love you" shit to bang your girl. Just expect it.

2. Always expect your girl to create this drama love triangle bullshit. (for attention or to see if he is better than you etc)

As soon as this shit starts...Don't get pissed at her or him. And, definately don't get into an ass kissing competition with the other guy. (girls love creating this situation)

The best thing to do is say (calmly)... "Thats OK. I think we should see other people." Then, smile and say good bye. Trust me. Turning the tables will make her flip.

 

[artrius]

well I talked to her today... she didn't really think she was doing this, she just wanted to find out what she wanted in a bf. Basically, she was really really upset, and she just ended the conversation and I can't get a hold of her... it looks like it may be over with her... i know that some of what you all are saying is true... but still... i feel horrible that I upset her like this...