Ahhh, well, here's what I don't understand about MEN.
They date these materialistic, superficial, HMB (high maintenance bitches) who make pretty trophies to hang on their arms and THEN the guys get all pissy because the superficial HMBs ACT like superficial HMBs.
This is like getting angry at a cat because it doesn't act like a dog.
You want a decent, down to earth girl who doesn't think the world revolves around her and isn't constantly focused on clothes and shoes and makeup, that you can actually TALK to, then you actually have to go for the slightly less flashy one. Not saying ugly, or unkempt, but you see a girl wearing full makeup, designer clothes and spikes at some place like the grocery store that should be a HUGE stop sign, seriously. If you find a woman who is so insecure (or superficial) she
WILL NEVER allow herself to be seen outdoors occasionally in knock around clothes and makeup-free, RUN.
If you want to play with the flashy ones, stop expecting them to be more than what they are.
As far as PMS goes, I'm 46, I
still get PMS. For three to five days out of a month my nerves are frayed, my emotions are close to the surface and my temper is very short. I know this, I am aware of it. I can control it, but I also feel like I could crawl out of my own skin sometimes. Frankly, I just need a little help from those around me. I can say to my (current) husband "give me a little space" and he respects that, that's all I need, a little extra peace and quiet. On the other hand, my first husband thought when I said that it meant "FREE FOR ALL, PICK ON MUSCLEMOM!" Seriously. And he couldn't figure out why shit got broken and I tried to murder him on several occasions
