Wife or Girl Friend

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It's not my wife though.. it's his.

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[mrplunkey]

Some seriously good advice being layed-down on this thread...

Others have said it, but my take-home point to you SS would be to seperate the wife and GF issues completely. Ask yourself:

1) If the GF didn't exist, would you even *consider* leaving your wife?

2) If the wife didn't exist, would the GF you have now be everything you want in a partner/spouse/mate?

They need to be two entirely seperate issues. If you feel something needs to be done about your marriage regardless of the girlfriend, then "fix" the marriage -- whether that be divorce, counciling, etc. etc. Then take some time off and assess your situation with the GF objectively.

 

[heatherrae]

remember something...

everything may seem rosy with the girlfriend- but she's not the one doing your laundry or making you dinner or helping to pay the bills, etc. Her sole job as a girlfriend is to listen to you complain about your terrible marriage, and to be the sexy, pretty thing you wish you were married to.

both of those things are easy for her, because she has an agenda. Your wifes agenda, on the other hand, is keeping your family safe and taken care of, and nomatter how much you may think having a gf isn't affecting your marriage... it is. and now she has to deal with that, even on a subtle level. Even if it means you just have a lack of sex drive or interest in what she has to say or how she feels- she's going to know it and react to it.

all your gf has to do is listen to you when you complain about your wife reacting.

it's easy to paint this picture of your future with your girlfriend, always being happy to see you home, the two of you screwing like rabbits then frolicking outside somewhere... but when its her turn to clean up after you or she's running up your credit card or going through your emails trying to find out what your up to, you're going to realize the evil that you know is often better than the evil that you don't.

That is an EXCELLENT reply!

 

[pitbullstl]

remember something...

everything may seem rosy with the girlfriend- but she's not the one doing your laundry or making you dinner or helping to pay the bills, etc. Her sole job as a girlfriend is to listen to you complain about your terrible marriage, and to be the sexy, pretty thing you wish you were married to.

both of those things are easy for her, because she has an agenda. Your wifes agenda, on the other hand, is keeping your family safe and taken care of, and nomatter how much you may think having a gf isn't affecting your marriage... it is. and now she has to deal with that, even on a subtle level. Even if it means you just have a lack of sex drive or interest in what she has to say or how she feels- she's going to know it and react to it.

all your gf has to do is listen to you when you complain about your wife reacting.

it's easy to paint this picture of your future with your girlfriend, always being happy to see you home, the two of you screwing like rabbits then frolicking outside somewhere... but when its her turn to clean up after you or she's running up your credit card or going through your emails trying to find out what your up to, you're going to realize the evil that you know is often better than the evil that you don't.

Word is bond yo.

Of course it's easy to agree with your sentiments when I'm married to the hottest, coolest, woman in the world.

Bitches are a dime a dozen, true love is the rarest of rare.

I find a new reason to be more in love with my wife each day.

 

[feisty11975]

Word is bond yo.

Of course it's easy to agree with your sentiments when I'm married to the hottest, coolest, woman in the world.

Bitches are a dime a dozen, true love is the rarest of rare.

I find a new reason to be more in love with my wife each day.

awww that was sooo sweet!

 

[OMEGA]

go with the one that Deep Throats and Does Anal

 

[feisty11975]

go with the one that Deep Throats and Does Anal

DOOD!!!!!!!

 

[heatherrae]

Word is bond yo.

Of course it's easy to agree with your sentiments when I'm married to the hottest, coolest, woman in the world.

Bitches are a dime a dozen, true love is the rarest of rare.

I find a new reason to be more in love with my wife each day.

Damn, that is what I hope for someday.

 

[swolenole]

Anyone here have a situation where they are torn between there wife and a girl friend.

Please don’t remind me that is wrong, just wondering if anyone else is in the same boat.

Not saying I am, just curious.

a wise man once told me "that no matter how hot a chick is ,that....somebody somewhere is tired of her shit".

 

[OMEGA]

DOOD!!!!!!!

Agreed>?