Wife or Girl Friend

[ksharp01]

Word is bond yo.

Of course it's easy to agree with your sentiments when I'm married to the hottest, coolest, woman in the world.

Bitches are a dime a dozen, true love is the rarest of rare.

I find a new reason to be more in love with my wife each day.

awww, I want one just like you --- Have a twin? lol

That was really sweet. Sounds like she has got her a great man.

 

[ksharp01]

Rememeber this feeling. Gotta work out the things and get over resentment. It's all about respect. This coming from a broken hearted guy who couldn't get past shit in his own house. I wish I would have done so many things differently.

Hard to fix the broken stuff though.

That is EXACTLY where I am at now.
I have all the resentment and so many things have now been said and done to go backwards now.

 

[Longhorn85]

- You're cheating on your wife - what person in their right mind would think they can trust you as a devoted SO since you've already demonstrated you cheat?

I had an affair for four years with the man I'm currently married to.

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[caligirl]

remember something...

everything may seem rosy with the girlfriend- but she's not the one doing your laundry or making you dinner or helping to pay the bills, etc. Her sole job as a girlfriend is to listen to you complain about your terrible marriage, and to be the sexy, pretty thing you wish you were married to.

both of those things are easy for her, because she has an agenda. Your wifes agenda, on the other hand, is keeping your family safe and taken care of, and nomatter how much you may think having a gf isn't affecting your marriage... it is. and now she has to deal with that, even on a subtle level. Even if it means you just have a lack of sex drive or interest in what she has to say or how she feels- she's going to know it and react to it.

all your gf has to do is listen to you when you complain about your wife reacting.

it's easy to paint this picture of your future with your girlfriend, always being happy to see you home, the two of you screwing like rabbits then frolicking outside somewhere... but when its her turn to clean up after you or she's running up your credit card or going through your emails trying to find out what your up to, you're going to realize the evil that you know is often better than the evil that you don't.

really good post

 

[solidspine]

a wise man once told me "that no matter how hot a chick is ,that....somebody somewhere is tired of her shit".

If I could offer one piece of advice to the planet, it would be this: Don't marry for looks alone, and I'll tell you why. In a few years, when Barbara's boobs start sagging, she can get plastic surgery, have them lifted, move the nipple wherever. You can actually go to a titty bar, pick out a set of titties and say, "I want those titties on that woman." If her belly gets too big, she can get a tummy tuck and have a belly like a cheerleader. If her vision goes bad, you can have LASIK surgery and have 20/20 vision. If her hearing goes bad, they can install a device in her ear that will give you hearing as clear as it was the day you were born. But let me tell you something, folks: You can't fix stupid. There's not a pill you can take; there's not a class you can go to. Stupid is forever.

In California women simply marry the richest man they can

 

[jh1]

Women simply marry the richest man they can

Fixed.

 

[pitbullstl]

awww, I want one just like you --- Have a twin? lol

That was really sweet. Sounds like she has got her a great man.

No twin.....lil' bro, but he's taken.


I'm not saying these things to win favor on here......I'm sure most everyone that's been around here long enough knows that. I give two shits what people think......but if anything I say in a thread like this inspires or gives someone hope, then that's why I said it. Before I met my wife, I was a jaded fuck........and then, there it was......the real deal....knock me on my ass love.

The point is this: Do my wife and argue.....absofuckinlutely.....do we on ocassion have knock down drag out fights.....without a doubt. Here's the key, in one man's opinion.....never be to proud to apologize. I can honestly say I can't remember a time we have gone to bed angry at each other.

I'm a dick, there's no two ways about it. Most people think I'm an arrogant prick.......but not to my wife. She broke me down a loooooooong time ago. She gets me, and I get her.

 

[heatherrae]

No twin.....lil' bro, but he's taken.


I'm not saying these things to win favor on here......I'm sure most everyone that's been around here long enough knows that. I give two shits what people think......but if anything I say in a thread like this inspires or gives someone hope, then that's why I said it. Before I met my wife, I was a jaded fuck........and then, there it was......the real deal....knock me on my ass love.

The point is this: Do my wife and argue.....absofuckinlutely.....do we on ocassion have knock down drag out fights.....without a doubt. Here's the key, in one man's opinion.....never be to proud to apologize. I can honestly say I can't remember a time we have gone to bed angry at each other.

I'm a dick, there's no two ways about it. Most people think I'm an arrogant prick.......but not to my wife. She broke me down a loooooooong time ago. She gets me, and I get her.

Awwwwwww.

 

[blueta2]

Damn, that is what I hope for someday.

I gotz me a good man like this!
Heather, I went through some major dirt bags to finally get a good one. You'll find an amazing person.
I will say this again, something my Dad told me a couple of yrs ago when I was with a jerk., he said "Jenny, if you look through the garbage, you're going to find trash"


;-)

 

[seaking420]

solid spine, how did it go?