why do wimminez want props for squeezing out kids?

[jestro]

I'm not gonna read this whole thing, cause I already know what the kiddless peeps have to say. Blah blah blah, little brats, yadda yadda yadda.
For me, raising a kid is the best thing I could ever do. It can be a pain, but it's lots a fun, and very rewarding.

 

[puddlemonkey]

why do you ask?

my boyish good looks may fool you

but im a man-ther

Curiosity, don't remember if you've ever mentioned it.

 

[heatherrae]

I have to say I have never seen so much man hating from a girl in all my life.its so bad I cant believe hr is not a dike.its not just against kb or bino ether you can see it in like 99% of all her post when she is e-fighting with some one that is a man...she uses being a mother and a gilr as a defense and the fact that the man is a man as a weapon.its like she holds a vagina shield and fights with a pork sword in ever fight.

Meh. When I see someone being a sexist I will point it out. Unfortunately, there are more than a few overly-macho men on this type of board.

As far as being a dyke, nah. I would guess that women are harder to date than men. Men are at least less mysterious in what motivates them.

 

[Faizakafez]

Curiosity, don't remember if you've ever mention it.

21

 

[Bikini Mod]

Men are at least less mysterious in what motivates them.

LOL How hard is it to figure out "HE WANTS ASS"?

 

[alien amp pharm]

Meh. When I see someone being a sexist I will point it out. .

Be carefull, your finger may get tired from pointing in the mirror so much.

 

[puddlemonkey]

21

Seriously? I thought you were younger for some reason.

21 years since you last saw a vagina. How does that make you feel buddy?

 

[heatherrae]

Seriously? I thought you were younger for some reason.

21 years since you last saw a vagina. How does that make you feel buddy?

I love that monkey picture. Sooooo cute.

 

[Faizakafez]

Seriously? I thought you were younger for some reason.

21 years since you last saw a vagina. How does that make you feel buddy?

LMAO your white text !!

its my baby face... i get that i look like im 17-16 sometimes

'you know you want it'

 

[needtogetaas]

Meh. When I see someone being a sexist I will point it out. Unfortunately, there are more than a few overly-macho men on this type of board.

As far as being a dyke, nah. I would guess that women are harder to date than men. Men are at least less mysterious in what motivates them.

fuck I was shore that was going to make you fly of the handle at me like last time.....this sucks.

 

[heatherrae]

LOL How hard is it to figure out "HE WANTS ASS"?

Precisely! Ass and a steak and most men are happy as clams.

 

[blueta2]

I have to say I have never seen so much man hating from a girl in all my life.its so bad I cant believe hr is not a dike.its not just against kb or bino ether you can see it in like 99% of all her post when she is e-fighting with some one that is a man...she uses being a mother and a gilr as a defense and the fact that the man is a man as a weapon.its like she holds a vagina shield and fights with a pork sword in ever fight.

whoa wait a sec.....why not say the same for the women haters like KB, Fistfullofsteel and Tc2? These guys are always coming in to threads to bash women.
Does this mean these guys are gay?!

 

[Faizakafez]

Precisely! Ass and a steak and most men are happy as clams.

if your eating rump roast your killing to birds with one stone!

 

[puddlemonkey]

I love that monkey picture. Sooooo cute.

You just like that I'm exposing my wee wee.

 

[needtogetaas]

whoa wait a sec.....why not say the same for the women haters like KB, Fistfullofsteel and Tc2? These guys are always coming in to threads to bash women.
Does this mean these guys are gay?!

it was just meant to piss hr off..so please leave it at that...

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Now kids get their values from MTV and Paris Hilton....

Yay!!!

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Very few people have a backbone anymore. Most, especially the younger crowds, want to run from their problems vs. facing and solving them. So many people running, running all their lives and getting nowhere. Sooner or later you gotta tough it out if you want to be respected.

 

[puddlemonkey]

Very few people have a backbone anymore.

Jellyfishist!

 

[KillahBee]

And blueta - I love women. That is strong women who are true to themselves and have certain levels of self awareness.

You are just a very negative, unhappy person. Please keep my name out your mouth and I'll do the same. Put me on ignore, too. Like an adult.

Otherwise, I will continue to completely fuck your mind to the extents you have never seen in your near-half century on earth.

 

[jerkbox]

from my experience, those that crow the loudest are usually the shittiest parents too. . .

one person comes to mind....

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

LOL How hard is it to figure out "HE WANTS ASS"?

How fair would it be to say women only want a guy who thinks with his little head?

 

[Smurfy]

and this is not directed at anyone so please don't turn this into a wimminnazi fest.
but do you notice how wimmin (and sometimes menz) want a gold star for having kids? like you are supposed to give them credit for birthing? wtf

lol @ wommanazi fest. i call it a kotex mafia.

yeah i dont understand it either when God intended for all women to have the ability to reproduce. all that is required is sperm to fertilize the egg and then for the woman to pop out the baby. yeah childbirth is quite the experience but it doesnt take any special qualifications other than an operable uterus and reproductive organs.

outside of that, i can say that creating life is a very special thing that i think all smart people should experience (not dumb ones though because we dont need anymore dumb peeps on this planet).

 

[Gambino]

lol @ wommanazi fest. i call it a kotex mafia.

yeah i dont understand it either when God intended for all women to have the ability to reproduce. all that is required is sperm to fertilize the egg and then for the woman to pop out the baby. yeah childbirth is quite the experience but it doesnt take any special qualifications other than an operable uterus and reproductive organs.

outside of that, i can say that creating life is a very special thing that i think all smart people should experience (not dumb ones though because we dont need anymore dumb peeps on this planet).

you think you will ever squeeze out another?

 

[Smurfy]

you think you will ever squeeze out another?

as of right now I'm not planning on it. I dont feel compelled to go through all that again. My son is so much more self-sufficient now I cant see me wanting to start over from scratch LOL

 

[Gambino]

as of right now I'm not planning on it. I dont feel compelled to go through all that again. My son is so much more self-sufficient now I cant see me wanting to start over from scratch LOL

does lummy have any kidds?

 

[heatherrae]

fuck I was shore that was going to make you fly of the handle at me like last time.....this sucks.

 

[Smurfy]

does lummy have any kidds?

nope

 

[KillahBee]

nope

I bet your son is a cool motherfucker (tell him I said that). You and Lummy, while being total fat retards - probably have some fun with that kid. He'll def be totally ashamed of you guys for most of his teen years, but he probably had a good 10 year run.

 

[Smurfy]

I bet your son is a cool motherfucker (tell him I said that). You and Lummy, while being total fat retards - probably have some fun with that kid. He'll def be totally ashamed of you guys for most of his teen years, but he probably had a good 10 year run.

agreed.

 

[Bikini Mod]

How fair would it be to say women only want a guy who thinks with his little head?

A time and a place for everything.... LOL

MOST MEN want ass. Nothing wrong with being honest about it. It is when they dress it up all nice like they want something more just to get that ass that it becomes a nasty thing.

If all I wanted from a guy was for him to service me and get the hell off when I was done, there was no doubt in his mind long before the bar bill came. Funny thing about that was 99% of the time he blew it before he got the chance.

 

[stilleto]

i was pregnant a few months ago for a short time, and can't tell you how not happy i was about the thought.

i'm so done having kids.

i found out i was pregnant at the same time i found out i lost it, so the feelings were mixed and short lived.

 

[swole]

me and moms almost died at birf

i owe it to myself to make her and my family proud, but in the end my lifestyle and choices are mine alone and they better respect it...and if they don't...too fuggin bad

not sure if this applies to the thread, just a random thought from a stupid guido.

 

[heatherrae]

me and moms almost died at birf

i owe it to myself to make her and my family proud, but in the end my lifestyle and choices are mine alone and they better respect it...and if they don't...too fuggin bad

not sure if this applies to the thread, just a random thought from a stupid guido.

You are big on respecting your mom. You have mentioned it before. I think that is very admirable.

 

[Bikini Mod]

You know, I find it interesting that some mothers on the board are wished well while others are wished slow, horrible deaths even though by all measures that are sane and logical all of the mothers only have their children's best interest at heart and none have ever harmed any one.

Just an observation, means nothing really....

 

[heatherrae]

i was pregnant a few months ago for a short time, and can't tell you how not happy i was about the thought.

i'm so done having kids.

i found out i was pregnant at the same time i found out i lost it, so the feelings were mixed and short lived.

Hmmmm...I guess it worked out for the best then, even though you are a great mommy to the kids you have.

 

[stilleto]

Hmmmm...I guess it worked out for the best then, even though you are a great mommy to the kids you have.

thanks.
my kids were dissapointed. they wanted another sibling, which i find amazing because of course it would mean less attention and everything for them. of course, my sons were a little freaked at the thought that I still "do it".

 

[heatherrae]

thanks.
my kids were dissapointed. they wanted another sibling, which i find amazing because of course it would mean less attention and everything for them. of course, my sons were a little freaked at the thought that I still "do it".

I'm 37, and I still don't want to imagine that my parents ever "did it."

 

[stilleto]

I'm 37, and I still don't want to imagine that my parents ever "did it."

lol
i'm really open with my kids (but appropriate), so my sons are always telling me to go 'get busy' in the brother or sister department.

if my door is locked in my room, they knock and ask if they can come in or are we busy making siblings.

of course, i always say "OH come IN. i was sleeping!!" just after I scramble to get under the covers.

 

[blueta2]

And blueta - I love women. That is strong women who are true to themselves and have certain levels of self awareness.

You are just a very negative, unhappy person. Please keep my name out your mouth and I'll do the same. Put me on ignore, too. Like an adult.

Otherwise, I will continue to completely fuck your mind to the extents you have never seen in your near-half century on earth.

Fuck my mind? Wow, you're very powerful. Trust me turd, you are not that powerful!
Now I'm challenged, I think I will keep uttering your name.

And Killah, you have no idea what a strong woman is pedro.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I dunno know about you Blue, but when I get fucked, I like to cum.

That's why I married my Old Grump.... hehehehee my pretend e-husband.

LOL@ANYONE online who thinks they are capable of *fucking* another e-entity. Almost as amusing as the internet dumbasses that flex their e-muscles by calling each other out, "Just tell me where you live you little punk! Tell me where you live and I will get on a plane and come over there and beat your punk ass up!"

In the style of my e-brother Rnch... LORDY, LORDY!!!

 

[velvett]

and this is not directed at anyone so please don't turn this into a wimminnazi fest.
but do you notice how wimmin (and sometimes menz) want a gold star for having kids? like you are supposed to give them credit for birthing? wtf

A freind of mine demanded (yes demanded) and piece of jewelry for each child born (she had two).

Now the nanny takes care of the children and all she does is bitch about her husband, nanny and children.

Come to think of it, I really can't stand her for much for than 10-20 minutes at a time anymore.

 

[velvett]

I can see why parents want kudos though, it's a tough job. From the labour to the upbringing etc...I am a pretty strong lady but could never have the strength to have my own kids.
Good parents should blow their own horn, since there are so many shitty parents on this planet.

Oh it's not for raising the child it's for the grestation and birth (they usually leave the raising for someone else - like the house cleaning).

 

[Bikini Mod]

Oh it's not for raising the child it's for the grestation and birth (they usually leave the raising for someone else - like the house cleaning).

Believe it or not people ask on occasion whether or not The Old Grump and I are going to have any kids. WE BOTH say, "We already have eight kids between the two of us. WHY ON EARTH WOULD WE WANT MORE?!?!"

 

[velvett]

I guess my Southern upbringing taught me different values than some of the other parts of the US. We were taught to HONOR THY FATHER AND MOTHER. We were taught to respect our elders. You do owe your mother and father respect.

Oh I was taught that too

I was also taught if you embarrass us by not being absolutely perfect we beat the shit of you and tell you how worthless you are and that you will never amount to anything for extra motivation.

And that's not a North South thing - that's an Immigrant (f*ed for generations family) sort of thing.

If you can't earn your respect, blood line or no blood line - you will not get it.

 

[Gymgurl]

i really never noticed women wanting praise for having a kid.

but i also totally understand a guy not wanting a woman with kids. Other than my own, i don't really like kids.

LMAO.....Great freaking post

 

[Bikini Mod]

Oh I was taught that too

I was also taught if you embarrass us by not being absolutely perfect we beat the shit of you and tell you how worthless you are and that you will never amount to anything for extra motivation.

And that's not a North South thing - that's an Immigrant (f*ed for generations family) sort of thing.

If you can't earn your respect, blood line or no blood line - you will not get it.

WERD

That's why I take the approach I do.

 

[heatherrae]

Oh I was taught that too

I was also taught if you embarrass us by not being absolutely perfect we beat the shit of you and tell you how worthless you are and that you will never amount to anything for extra motivation.

And that's not a North South thing - that's an Immigrant (f*ed for generations family) sort of thing.

If you can't earn your respect, blood line or no blood line - you will not get it.

Wowsers, that is rough. My parents always told me, "You can be anything you want, so long as you go get an education." Okay, so maybe that was overly optimistic, but it was a kind sentiment...lol.

I can't imagine telling my kid that he will never amount to anything. HARSH!

 

[Faizakafez]

Oh I was taught that too

I was also taught if you embarrass us by not being absolutely perfect we beat the shit of you and tell you how worthless you are and that you will never amount to anything for extra motivation.

And that's not a North South thing - that's an Immigrant (f*ed for generations family) sort of thing.

If you can't earn your respect, blood line or no blood line - you will not get it.

wow,

same here.. I get that every couple of weeks.. their main concern is their "respect"

i usually get something like this

if your uncle found out what would he say

or

your wont rest till you embaress us or ruin our name...

 

[Bikini Mod]

Wowsers, that is rough. My parents always told me, "You can be anything you want, so long as you go get an education." Okay, so maybe that was overly optimistic, but it was a kind sentiment...lol.

I can't imagine telling my kid that he will never amount to anything. HARSH!

It's a foreign-er thing... Not all but I would venture to guess that MOST of us were raised that way to parents who came here not knowing the language and having to fight hard to make their way. Maybe since the world around them was so harsh and cruel, they figured they would prepare us for it? <---
(That's me trying to be overly optimistic and trying to see good even where none exists. Now can ya'll see how I was foolish enough to marry my first husband?)

I have NEVER said anything remotely like this to my own children but take the approach that your parents did - "Stay in school and be ANYTHING you want to be. Why limit yourself?"

Sad to say though that it doesnt really matter much as they have been fed a 24/7 steady diet of, "You are stupid worthless pieces of shit that will/or are whores just like your mother." Nice guy, eh? No one that knows my kids *this much* (not even my own children) can figure out why he has fought so hard for children that he so obviously does NOT want.

 

[Bikini Mod]

wow,

same here.. I get that every couple of weeks.. their main concern is their "respect"

i usually get something like this

if your uncle found out what would he say

or

your wont rest till you embaress us or ruin our name...

My father's thing was, "Little girl as long as you bear MY NAME you will do as I say. If you bring shame I have a gun with two bullets: one with your name and the other one with mine. I brought you into this world and I can take you out but I refuse to sit in jail for a lifetime because of YOUR SHAME."

So it is a mystery why I married to leave my parent's home at 21?

It's ok... I mean I actually feel sorry for my parents to have had to live such a hard life filled with THAT MUCH fear. These concepts only bit them in the ass in later years. My sister and I try very hard not to disrespect my parents in order to do this we spend as little time as possible with them. THAT IS TERRIBLE... but it is what it is.

 

[heatherrae]

My father's thing was, "Little girl as long as you bear MY NAME you will do as I say. If you bring shame I have a gun with two bullets: one with your name and the other one with mine. I brought you into this world and I can take you out but I refuse to sit in jail for a lifetime because of YOUR SHAME."

So it is a mystery why I married to leave my parent's home at 21?

It's ok... I mean I actually feel sorry for my parents to have had to live such a hard life filled with THAT MUCH fear. These concepts only bit them in the ass in later years. My sister and I try very hard not to disrespect my parents in order to do this we spend as little time as possible with them. THAT IS TERRIBLE... but it is what it is.

Jesus! I can't see how you can say something like that to this little kid that you brought into the world. I just don't get it.

 

[heatherrae]

Oh it's not for raising the child it's for the grestation and birth (they usually leave the raising for someone else - like the house cleaning).

I think it would be nice to have someone to pamper me while I'm prego. I don't see it as such a terrible thing to want some pampering when you feel bad. I think men who make a big deal out of it are probably the same ones who go on like they are dying and get waited on hand and foot when they have a head cold...lol..

Likewise, I don't see anything wrong with having a housekeeper or a nanny if you need the help.

If I could afford to stay home with the baby, I would. If I could hire a housekeeper, I would, just because I hate housework. I would only hire a nanny though, if I were working outside the home. It would also be nice to have someone to watch the baby while I go to dinner or do something else. Maybe once a week or so is all.

I don't think that makes someone a bad mom, bad wife, etc. It just makes them human.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Even when I did have a nanny the gentleman I was with at the time (we were practically engaged - THANK GOD he dumped me - bipolar looney tune he was) would tease and near complain that I "was doing too much with the kids, why am I paying a nanny?" So I let him have it. First of all the nanny was more like my own daughter and I treated her as such. And secondly I ENJOYED feeding/bathing/interacting with my girls, often times they were much more fun than the adults. It was just nice to be able to have my girls amused and safe when I wanted to have a bit of adult time.

 

[velvett]

I think it would be nice to have someone to pamper me while I'm prego. I don't see it as such a terrible thing to want some pampering when you feel bad. I think men who make a big deal out of it are probably the same ones who go on like they are dying and get waited on hand and foot when they have a head cold...lol..

Likewise, I don't see anything wrong with having a housekeeper or a nanny if you need the help.

If I could afford to stay home with the baby, I would. If I could hire a housekeeper, I would, just because I hate housework. I would only hire a nanny though, if I were working outside the home. It would also be nice to have someone to watch the baby while I go to dinner or do something else. Maybe once a week or so is all.

I don't think that makes someone a bad mom, bad wife, etc. It just makes them human.

Do not misunderstand - I did not say pampering while preggo or any other time - a decent human being would know that caring for someone that is need is obvious. (some men, yes, don't get that)

What I did say was "I want a this (demanding a bauble)" after having the child the "mommy gift" I kid you not. I was there in the hospital after each child was born and there were fights in the room about this particular gift and why it was not already in her hand. The second time she was screaming at the top of her lungs as why he didn't learn the first time.

I want a piece of jewelry because I birthed your child.

^ that is what I am talking about.


(You should get down of knees and thank God that your child was born healthy with all his/her limbs and you too survived childbirth in one piece)

And on each child's birthday if she doesn't get flowers and a thank you card she's so far up her hubby's a$$ - you can't be near there house for a week or two.

One of these kids is my Godchild and I have to tell you - I hate being at their house to see this display of bastardized family and the kids are growing up to be just as manipulating and demanding at 4yrs and 18 months.

As for nanny's and house keepers - by all means if you have the finances I say go for it. But when your child wants his or her mommy don't behave like your kid is a burden and while your kid(s) and house is being tended to don't complain that you don't have enough time for yourself.

^

That is what my friend is like - freaking primadonna she's become and frankly the more I think about it seeing her as the selfish bitch I don't even want to around her.


God it gets me all riled up.

People just don't see how good their lives are - it just disgusts me.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Do not misunderstand - I did not say pampering while preggo or any other time. What I did say was "I want a this (demanding a bauble)" after having the child the "mommy gift" I kid you not. I was there in the hospital after each child was born and there were fights in the room about this particular gift and why it was not already in her hand. The second time she was screaming at the top of her lungs as why he didn't learn the first time.

I want a piece of jewelry because I birthed your child.

^ that is what I am talking about.


(You should get down of knees and thank God that your child was born healthy with all his/her limbs and you too survived childbirth in one piece)

And on each child's birthday if she doesn't get flowers and a thank you card she's so far up her hubby's a$$ - you can't be near there house for a week or two.

One of these kids is my Godchild and I have to tell you - I hate being at their house to see this display of bastardized family and the kids are growing up to be just as manipulating and demanding at 4yrs and 18 months.

As for nanny's and house keepers - by all means if you have the finances I say go for it. But when your child wants his or her mommy don't behave like your kid is a burden and while your kid(s) and house is being tended to don't complain that you don't have enough time for yourself.

^

That is what my friend is like - freaking primadonna she's become and frankly the more I think about it seeing her as the selfish bitch I don't even want to around her.


God it gets me all riled up.

People just don't see how good their lives are - it just disgusts me.

Agreed...

I would just be happy to see my children.

 

[heatherrae]

Do not misunderstand - I did not say pampering while preggo or any other time - a decent human being would know that caring for someone that is need is obvious. (some men, yes, don't get that)

What I did say was "I want a this (demanding a bauble)" after having the child the "mommy gift" I kid you not. I was there in the hospital after each child was born and there were fights in the room about this particular gift and why it was not already in her hand. The second time she was screaming at the top of her lungs as why he didn't learn the first time.

I want a piece of jewelry because I birthed your child.

^ that is what I am talking about.


(You should get down of knees and thank God that your child was born healthy with all his/her limbs and you too survived childbirth in one piece)

And on each child's birthday if she doesn't get flowers and a thank you card she's so far up her hubby's a$$ - you can't be near there house for a week or two.

One of these kids is my Godchild and I have to tell you - I hate being at their house to see this display of bastardized family and the kids are growing up to be just as manipulating and demanding at 4yrs and 18 months.

As for nanny's and house keepers - by all means if you have the finances I say go for it. But when your child wants his or her mommy don't behave like your kid is a burden and while your kid(s) and house is being tended to don't complain that you don't have enough time for yourself.

^

That is what my friend is like - freaking primadonna she's become and frankly the more I think about it seeing her as the selfish bitch I don't even want to around her.


God it gets me all riled up.

People just don't see how good their lives are - it just disgusts me.

Oh, I wasn't disagreeing with you. Your friend sounds like a brat...lol. I was just elaborating on how I feel about outside help.

She sounds like she is teaching her kids some terrible lessons.